My step grandpa is a minister and he will be marrying my FI and I. He has performed MANY ceremonies. He came to me and asked what I wanted the ceremony to look like, and I have no idea! I just want something quick, no extra songs or readings (other than what he is doing) and I want us to write our own vows.
From that he said that he wants to read our vows and have us repeat them. I haven't been to many ceremonies, but I always envisioned just reading them to each other. He said we could combine the tradition "repeat after me" with our own vows. I A.) don't know if that would flow very well and B.) I don't want it to be too long!
Does any one have any ideas? What did you do/are planning on doing for your ceremony?