U know how there's someone who tells people to sign the guest book, or they tell people to gather for the boquet toss, garter removal? Who do u ask to do that for u? I'm trying to get everything in order & the fact that our families are from 2 different states & not having the funds to do anything really makes me wanna just throw in the towel & say forget it. We would have to save for years in order to get everyone in one place & I don't wanna wait several years to marry him. Just really frustrated. Would u ladies get married without ur immediate family there?