Well, me and the FI have decided to move the wedding back from February 13, 2010 to November 13, 2010. As much as we wanted to hurry up and get married, it just wasn't going to happen in the next 6 months. We have soooooo much going on that the wedding planning would have put it over the top for me. I'm sooo stress out with everything else (switching careers, moving out, paying off our debt, help planning my sister's wedding). But i'm glad we have made this decision because i think in the long run, this will benefit us. I have more time to plan it the way we want. I finally get my fall wedding. Me and the FI will hopefully be settled in a house my the start of next year. So thats what has happen in the past few days. I'm glad that our vendors we've already booked don't mind the date change!!!