so, i was stuck between two churches trying to figure out which one i wanted to get married at. one being our church home and another i just thought was beautiful (is that bad?) well our church home is going to cost us $500 and you have to take a premarital class (which we have already signed up for) to get married at and the other church you had to be a member and pay $700 for the chapel and $200 for the reception and the pastor wouldnt marry you if you were living together. so my question is how can they tell? do they check your drivers license or something? my FI and I have already decided to stay at our church since it only makes sense (and is cheaper) and they know our status but i was just curious! thanks