Can an outside wedding be formal?

s-aries8990

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_ceremony-ideas_can-an-outside-wedding-be-formal?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:10Discussion:8e3309a1-24fe-4c8c-9406-64d0a57b01e4Post:b0e71622-543a-426a-b464-1aa3042329ba">Re: Can an outside wedding be formal?</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Can an outside wedding be formal? : I never insulted anyone, I don't see a problem with telling someone to go elsewhere with a post about someone who is "trolling" when they are not. Trolling has nothing to do with the subject matter so why should that post be allowed?  Im not asking anyone to "validate my plan" either, I just didn't see what the big deal about wearing a tuxedo was. 
Posted by amberella.eves[/QUOTE]

There is no big deal with the FOG wearing a tuxedo. There is, however, a big deal about him being forced to not only wear one but rent it, even though he is not part of the WP, when he has several other completely appropriate options. You asked him to wear one - that is ok to ask. He said no thank you- that is a perfectly acceptable response. Now, put on your big girl panties and let the man wear a suit. There is NO PROBLEM with wearing a suit to an evening wedding. Let the man wear a goahh daym suit.

amberella.eves

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_ceremony-ideas_can-an-outside-wedding-be-formal?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:10Discussion:8e3309a1-24fe-4c8c-9406-64d0a57b01e4Post:bd206e24-c5f9-408d-8edf-551ad24927fc">Re: Can an outside wedding be formal?</a>:
[QUOTE]I don't see a problem with telling someone to go elsewhere with a post about someone who is "trolling" when they are not. Trolling has nothing to do with the subject matter so why should that post be allowed? Telling someone to get off a thread IS against Knot rules. I'm a mod, although this isn't one of my boards.  You really need to go read the rules again. You are attempting to direct how people can respond to your post, which is also not allowed. 
Posted by RetreadBride[/QUOTE]

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</div><div>well maybe those people shouldn't try to say that I am doing something when I am not.</div>

amberella.eves

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_ceremony-ideas_can-an-outside-wedding-be-formal?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:10Discussion:8e3309a1-24fe-4c8c-9406-64d0a57b01e4Post:63150a64-a379-4a89-bf4a-640375b96e7a">Re: Can an outside wedding be formal?</a>:
[QUOTE]You claim you want advice, but then attack the advice you get.  You really just want validation, which isn't going to happen. Every single person has told you this is a bad idea, and will jeopardize your relationship with your future father-in-law.  You continue to attack people anyway.  That is trolling.
Posted by RetreadBride[/QUOTE]

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</div><div>That is not what trolling is, but okay. I never attacked the advice I got, I still simply stated my own opinion and that I did not understand what the big deal was. Apparently you read everything I type as if I am screaming it to someone when that is not the case. Who's to say I would even continue on the original plan I had after getting peoples opinions? How do you know I'm not taking everyones advice into consideration? </div>

Peledreamsofrain

Ahahaha, I just got back and looked at this thread out of curiosity.  Girl, you found the wrong person to try to boss around. You could try it every day for the rest of your life, and get exactly nowhere with that.

The reason I called you a troll is your 80 lb comment about the groom.  No decent and kind human being says things like that.  Ergo, you are either a deeply deeply bad person, OR, you are stirring the pot for funsies.  You pick who you'd like to be.

amberella.eves

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_ceremony-ideas_can-an-outside-wedding-be-formal?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:10Discussion:8e3309a1-24fe-4c8c-9406-64d0a57b01e4Post:d1121ef3-62c2-473c-8272-8c784cd21296">Re: Can an outside wedding be formal?</a>:
[QUOTE]Ahahaha, I just got back and looked at this thread out of curiosity.  Girl, you found the wrong person to try to boss around. You could try it every day for the rest of your life, and get exactly nowhere with that. The reason I called you a troll is your 80 lb comment about the groom.  No decent and kind human being says things like that.  Ergo, you are either a deeply deeply bad person, OR, you are stirring the pot for funsies.  You pick who you'd like to be.
Posted by Peledreamsofrain[/QUOTE]

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</div><div>What "80lb comment about the grom" are you talking about?</div>