3 months to go... FA-REAKING OUT.

kelseymw

We have 3 months and 1 week to go and I am really starting to freak out. I feel like nothing is done, but at the same time feel like I am constantly working on something wedding related. 

From the married ladies- any advice? What were you stressing over unnecessarily at the end? Anything you forgot to do but wanted to... or would have not done looking back? 

 

brittany_minot

I'm not married yet, but I have about a month to go. I know exactly what you are talking about. I started freaking out a LOT! lol I have a lot of stuff done, but I freak out about the small things that I still have left to do. And the things that I completely forgot about like a cake serving set, and a seating arrangement... The checklist on theknot really helps. It's kinda scary and overwhelming sometimes though. I just used it as a guideline and made my own, less intimidating list at home. But I think you are supposed to freak out. If not it means you're crazy.

reddie36

You are so on top of things - you have nothing to worry about!! I have thankfully not hit freak out mode about the wedding since we have been soooo busy with house stuff. I know I have a lot of little stuff that needs to be done but it will get done - and if it doesn't, well then it doesn't. At this point it will not make or break the day so that is how I am thinking about it.

cstrattontx

I have less than 2 months to go and the closer I get, the more I cut from the wedding. I had a ton of DIY projects and details that I thought would add a lot to the wedding, but now I realize that I don't need to put so much on my plate. I have been asking family to help more and also been focusing on the big stuff, music, food, ect.

kelseymw

Glad to know I'm not the only one in "freak out" mode!

crystalgail

If you have all of the big things lined up and most of the small things taken care of, you're totally set.  If it doesn't get done in time, it must not have been that important.  It's hard, but you have to be okay with knowing that some things might not go according to plan.  It's also important to know that you are the only one who will know any different.    Just remember that the goal is to enjoy your day and be married to the love of your life at the end of the night.  

karenchris2009

I have about 6 weeks to go, and I'm completely freaking out. I have everything done that needs to be done at this point, but it's just overwhelming. I don't think any amount of preparation would get you to the point of not freaking out.

So, do what I do. Take a deep breath and have a glass of wine! :-)