I got the invite today the 23rd of July. Everyone is suppose to be at the resort on the 19th of August. I hope people still come to the wedding. Love my friend, but if she would have been a knottie she would have known this is a huge no-no! I sent my invites out 6weeks and 3 days before the RSVP date, and I thought I was pushing it. RSVP date is Aug. 12th. That's like in no time. Is it wrong of me to think some destination brides don't get it?