Last night, my fiance gets a call from his mother. She said when she was out shopping with F's sister, his sister mentioned she hoped she was a BM. My heart sank to my stomach. I have nothing against this girl. She's sweet, and it's cute that she wants to be one of my BMs. BUT, we're not close. I don't text her or FB her, and really the only time I see her is when we go over to his parent's house for a dinner. I'm also planning on paying for my BM's dresses, and I've only budgeted for the 5 (2 are my sisters)....Believe me, we're on a pretty tight budget. I just don't know how I feel about this. I lie. I feel obligated. And I HATE that. But I also don't want to hurt her feelings.
What would you do?
Enjoy the journey, remember the destination.