No ring bearer or flower girl!!!

michellealynn

I am getting married at adult only, all inclusive Mexican resort... !!! While this is very exciting, I now won't be able to have your "standard" ring bearer/flower girl...

Are these necessary and/or are there any other fun alternatives or solutions if we decide we still want something like that? /:

Peavy

Ditto Retread - you don't need them, and you don't need to subsititue anything for them.

AdeleDazeem

Your marriage will most definitely be invalid without a flower girl or a ring bearer.  Sorry.

Winnertag1

You dont need a ringbearer or flower girl, dont worry about not having one. 

Lisa50

I have never been to a wedding that has either a ring bearer (!!!) or flower girl (!!!).  Never.
They are not necessary. 

Your honor attendant carries your H's ring; his honor attendant carries yours.  If you don't have attendants, you carry his ring and he can carry yours.  Done.

Have a wonderful wedding!

Tina3104

We aren't having either and DEFINITELY don't do the 'dog' carries the rings. I love all my pets but I've never saw one of these cute attempts work. And it takes the focus off you because everyone is looking at the dog.

babe915

We aren't having a FG or RB either but that was our choice. There is no need for them really.

michellealynn

Haha thanks, everyone! Got it! No kids, no dog, and it's all okay! (:

MiksChick23

I'm not having either. BM will carry my ring, MOH will carry FI's.

Kristin789

We didn't have RB/FG.  And the officiant had both rings.

kitkatchica86

I've seen some disasters with the kids. Betwee the pictures and the "pressure" of walking down the aisle, some kids do well, but it can be super distracting when they lash out. You don't have to have a substitute. BM and MOH can hold onto the rings.

shaina925

We also will not have both of those.  FI brother (his best man) will most likely hold our rings.

DramaGeek

After watching a FG roll around on the ground through me friend's entire ceremony, I decided having kids in our wedding party would be a bad idea.  80+ candles and kids don't mix well!  I don't think anyone even noticed, to be honest.

ladydaisy

I wont be having a ring bearer or flower girl at my wedding either.  I am actually really sad that I dont have any little kids that I feel close enough to that I could ask.  I really wanted a flower girl!