I didn't get to post my full vendor reviews yet so I here it is
Adelphias in Deptford,NJ: They just remodeled the room and I was the 1st to use it...I looks gorgeous and the staff was so helpful and very professional. We had a person with me and my husband all night who got us whatever we needed and they did everything for us
Kamila Harris Photography: Amazing, stunning, fantastic....I can't say enough great things about her. She captured exactly what I wanted and I had no clue she was there half the time. Check out my picts in her blog and that says enough
Ken Stillman Video: Amazing, Amazing, Amazing....He was as good as I heard he was...like Kamila I had no clue he was even there and the "Big Show" was amazing. I've had people calling and commenting on it non stop...I even had him make copies to give guest which turned out to be a big hit. My mom and mother and law have been getting calls asking if we have extras 
Check it out on his blog
Mum's the Word: My flowers and my girls flowers were beyond beautiful...I didn't know anything about flower and put complete trust and her and she went above and beyond...They were absolutely gorgeous...even my guys bouts were very masculine...LOVED HER. There are shots of the flowers on Kamilas website and Ken's.
Supreme Limos: I driver was awesom, on time, never needed directions and very courtious.
Aluanbydesign.com: Invitations were beautiful and I loved that I could design them the way I wanted and only order what I needed
Dance Party Dj's: Ken was the best....he was so much fun and we literally had EVERYONE on the dance floor!!!
Hair and Makeup : Christy Barolin is a family friend and she is by far the best stylist I've ever worked with and I've worked in quite a few big salons in the area She went into detail about what would work best with my dress, my face shape and everything and she was so right
My best advice:
-Be at your cocktail hour(best descision we made)
-go with the flow of the day, I change about 5 things that day just b/c it felt right..like doing a recieving line and changing our picture location
-take it all in and stay with your husband...I can't tell you how many people have commented on how in love we looked and how people could really tell we enjoyed the whole night
-RELAX...I was so laid back the whole day that people kept laughing b/c I was acting like it was just another day, but I figured I did all the hard stuff and whatever happened would. Yes little things went wrong but I just let it all go and it made a huge difference in my day
I think that's everyone...if you have any questions please feel free to email me at nygirl07@yahoo.com and Happy Planning!!!