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Need opinons, confused!

I had my hair trial and thought I was set on they way it looked but I keep going back and looking at pictures and I'm not sure I like the placment of the veil.  I chose to have it on top of the chingon  b/c I thought it looked more bridalish but now I'm not sure if it looks right due to the headband.I have picts in my bio of it from my trial and want to know what everyone thinks....and be honest :)  If you think I should change the style, the placement or whatever.TIA

Re: Need opinons, confused!

  • edited December 2011
    I think you should do what you love. If you don't love the way it looks...change it. We can't tell you how you're going to love your hair. If you are even questioning it then you must not be happy. Try it a different way...you still have plenty of time.
  • nygirl07nygirl07 member
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    edited December 2011
    I keep going back and forth....I've tried playing with it myself so I don't have to go for another hair trial but it's too hard to tell with me just throwing it up.I just want to see what others think b/c I don't know if I'm just being too picky
  • edited December 2011
    Let me just start out by saying I think you look beautiful in those pics!  But, it really doesn't matter how I think you look, what matters most is how YOU think you look and how you FEEL with your hair like that.  I love the headband, makes me wish I had one!  The only thing I think when I look at your pics is that your veil covers up your chignon (at least from what I can see in the pics).  I could see how it would look pretty if the chignon showed.  But - I totally agree w/ Bunchy, if you have doubts, get another trial.  It will ease your nerves about it.  This is your wedding day - you should feel like a princess!
  • edited December 2011
    I think it looks absolutely beautiful the way it is! I'm a huge headband fan and i think that the veil looks great with it. The day of your wedding, try it again but with the veil in a different position and if you don't like it then go back to your original plan! You will look amazing no matter what!!
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  • nygirl07nygirl07 member
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    edited December 2011
    First Thanks, and My mom told me to just wait till the wedding day since it's just a switch of the veil, but I'm still gonna call the stylist just in case.  She at first suggested going under the chignon b/c of the line of the headband and how it wraps under that it would look like they go together.  If you look at the pict you can see how the headband wraps under the chignon and the veil sits on top so I'm not sure if she was right and the veil just looks misplaced.
  • iheartbillydiheartbillyd member
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    edited December 2011
    I agree with the future MrsHeiss. I think it looks great the way it is in the picture. Having a headband instead of the veil already being attached to the headpiece can cause problems but I think the separation between the two looks great. If you went closer to the headband with the veil I think the headband would be lost and not noticed in pictures. If that makes sense.
  • Kim84mKim84m member
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    edited December 2011
    I agree that it looks good both over and under the chingon, and you really cant go wrong either way. you're going to look beautiful no matter what. I personally disagree about waiting until the day of the wedding to fuss with it. You're going to be much more emotional the day of your wedding, and dont want to get wrapped up and all frustrated with your veil. However, I don't know you, so maybe you'd be absolutely fine just making a last minute quick decision about it.
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  • lmparlettlmparlett member
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    edited December 2011
    I personally like under, so you can see your hair.  But like everyone else said, its a personal choice.  I don't think its a big deal if you wait til that day to decide.  Just have your stylist try it both ways that day and you can decide then.  Otherwise your just going to keep spending the next few months going back and forth anyway.
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  • dch167dch167 member
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    edited December 2011
    It looks beautiful- very classy and sleek. But if I were to give a suggestion I think the headband makes it look a bit more casual. Maybe do the veil without the headband then add that in for the reception when you have the veil off. Just a though, but I am sure it will look great whatever you decide!
  • nygirl07nygirl07 member
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    edited December 2011
    dch167...I did think about that but I'm in love with the headband and would hate to not wear it the entire day, espcially with all the $ my mom spent on it
  • edited December 2011
    I agree that its tough for us tell you what to do but I understand that you are just looking for opinions. Your pictures are great and you are going to look wonderful no matter which way you choose to have it. If you want my opinion though I like on top. I’m not a big fan of having it under. I saw pictures from a recent wedding where it was worn underneath and yes you could see her hair style but at the same time it looked like the veil was just hanging out of no where and to me it look awkward.  
  • nygirl07nygirl07 member
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    edited December 2011
    demarcosjd: Thanks for the opinion!
  • edited December 2011
    I think you look great the way it is. Not sure what you are going to do, but I would take off the veil for the reception. I really like the look w/out the veil so cute! But for the ceremony I like it over.. Good luck with the decision. Try not to overthink it. I did that alot before I got married!
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