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Shower Guests..

Due to our budget, we will be having a very small wedding -- pretty much just our families and (very) few friends. My question is this: When I have my bridal shower, WHO do I invite??  Is it tacky to invite people not invited to the wedding?  I would love to invite friends I've known forever, but if they are not invited to wedding......Does anyone know what the proper etiquette is? 

Re: Shower Guests..

  • edited December 2011
    Only those invited to the wedding should be invited to the shower.
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  • Crys&BriCrys&Bri member
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    edited December 2011
    I agree.... ONLY people invited to the wedding should be invited to the shower.
  • Summer2008Summer2008 member
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    edited December 2011
    If they are invited to the shower they must be invited to the wedding. If they are invited to the wedding they don't necessarily have to be invited to the shower, as showers can be much smaller than weddings.
  • Musicheals71Musicheals71 member
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    edited December 2011
    What everyone else said in PP is absolutely correct.
  • cmaygrlcmaygrl member
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    edited December 2011
    Thank you ladies. I thought so, but a few of my family members told me different (said I could invite anyone I wanted).  I didn't feel comfortable with that, so I knew you guys would know. :-)
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