Ladies....just an FYI.....if you are looking for ceremony/cocktail music try the Philadelphia String Quartet...they are amazing!!! They charge $2k for a package deal of strings (anything from classical to lady gaga) for the prelude,ceremony, and cocktail hour....then you can pick one of their dj's....I chose "ambiance" --they got really good reviews.
For the photographer.....check out Faith West Photography in Philadelphia--she is amazing and reasonably priced and she has associates that work under her that are just as good as her! I chose HIeu!
Happy vendor hunting!!!