Hi ladies! I know there aren't many of us ND brides but I'm midway through planning and I can't help but notice that things seem to be, well, different here. Anybody watch the show "Four Weddings" or "Say Yes to the Dress"? First of all, I CANNOT beleive how much money people spend on their weddings! While I would like to have an unlimited buget, mine will probably be around 8-10K. There are several things that I see on some shows/blogs that seem pretty normal, but it seems like around here it isn't really as common. For example: save the dates, open bars, and assigned seating. Any thoughts/advice?