I haven't been posting much lately but there's a reason for it I promise. Pretty much everyone knows that my H came back last month. I had really hoped that when he came back we could sort through all of our issues, but it became really obvious really quickly that my H had no intention of changing the way he treated me, or his attitude towards our marriage. There was a lot that I didn't share on the board about just how terribly he treated me (Calindi can attest to that..) but I just didn't want to be a constant Debbie Downer. I think that I also kind of felt like if I didn't talk about it the emotional abuse wasn't real.. It was real, and it wasn't going to get any better. I filed for divorce on Feb 13th. Since we were already separated for over a year, we can count that time as a legal separation (otherwise we'd have to wait another year to even file for divorce) and he just signed divorce papers on March 5th. So 30 days from then I'll be officially single again. I just wanted things to be more final before I said anything on here... plus y'all are all planning weddings and enjoying married life and I didn't want to bring everyone down... Sorry to add the the statistics Ladies. I Love you all.
