We were originally planning on getting married August 13th but recently found that my FI is going on deployment leaving in June/ July. We have been talking about this for awhile and decided we have 3 options. We can either A) go to the JP and get the liscence out of the way and have the ceremony when he comes home next year
move the wedding up to may/June or C)hope that he can get leave in August before he actually goes overseas.
I would really love to have our wedding on the day that we wanted to have it but I have a feeling its not going to go that way, option c is dependant on where he is for trianing,and I dont really want to go to the JP before having the ceremony because I feel people will look down on us for doing so even though family members have brought it up.So that do you think? FI definatly wants to be married before he goes.