So I just got engaged. My Fiance and I are both active duty and are planning on getting married sometime in 2014 mainly because I'm going to be using almost all my leave in a few months to meet his family and visit my family. We want a pretty good size wedding. Here's the catch, we will only be in town to physically be there for the planning for 2 weeks this year and the next time we go will be for the actual wedding, which we can't necessarily set a date just yet because we don't know where he's getting PCSed to, and whether or not he'll be on deployment. Any advice or suggestions on any of this?