Okay, so this is kind of long...
My boyfriend and I have spent a good deal of time recently talking about when we wanted to get married. And we thought we had it all figured out, and then our plans had to go and change (yes, I've got to get used to a lifetime of plans being changed if I'm going to be a military spouse, but that's besides the point here).
Summary:
Boyfriend is a law student, he joined the Marines to become a JAG officer - he went to Officer Candidate School last summer and passed with flying colors and commissioned immediately. However, he is "inactive reserve" while in school, so he's essentially just a law student for now. After graduation, he owes them 3 years at which point they will reimburse a large portion of his federal student loans.
Once he graduates, he has to pass the Bar (has tests in July and February). Then he has to wait 4-6 weeks to get his Bar results to make sure he passed. After that, he will receive his orders when to arrive for The Basic School.
We figured we'd get married between the Bar and when he will get his score so that we can be guaranteed the Marines won't be able to mess with our schedule. We were thinking mid-August 2012.
We've been dating 2 years now, and while we definitely want to get married, we're enjoying this stage of our relationship and are not in a rush, so that sounds like a good time frame to both of us.
Sounds good so far, right?
Okay, so now the Marines come and mess up our nice, neat schedule - he was supposed to have an internship this summer with a JAG officer, but that fell through at the LAST minute due to funding. So my boyfriend was scrambling to find something else to do to pay the bills - he decided to take extra classes so he can get loans to cover cost of living. Thus he will graduate early - December, taking the Bar in February.
We both want a summer wedding. So if he's now thinking of doing a dual program and getting an LLM (essentially a doctorate of law) and graduate on time. But with more loans.