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It was not sami Joe

Who sent the facebook message. I assumed it was based on what was said by my FI. 

I can not show you the message because he deleted it. I didn't even know about the message until hours later because I was asleep and he brought it up as we were talking. He said he deleted it because it was high school.


Sami Joe- I'm sorry for assuming. I shouldn't have and that was wrong of me. 

To everyone else- I'm sorry for all the drama I have caused but is it possible for you to move past it?
Military Brides December 2011 Siggy. Holiday picture with your SO. We suck and don't have one :/ Those who matter don't mind and those who mind don't matter.

Re: It was not sami Joe

  • edited December 2011
    I'm not trying to be mean but I'm really beyond sick of everything.  I wasn't here for all the drama yesterday but you flamed SamiJoe and she repeatedly told you she didn't do it.  And now two times you have gone over to weddingbee to bitch about how mean and psychotic and crazy we are.  Everyone here was generally just trying to help you from making a huge mistake but you wanted to fight everyone along the way.  I'm not saying that no one said anything out of line, but it happens and most people apologize when they do.

    And I'm not trying to be mean.  But I saw on the introductions post that you and your fiance have only been together for 7 months?  By your actions, I would really recommend waiting to get married.  That is really soon and the fact that you even thought of doing a secret JOP, I honestly don't think that you are even ready for marriage.
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  • Beachy730Beachy730 member
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    edited December 2011
    Like I already said in your other post, being aren't going to take to kindly to you here now.  You made a HUGE accusation about Sami, and I honestly don't think a simple post saying you're sorry is enough to erase it.  Not only did you slander her here, but also on weddingbee, and who knows where else.  

    You can continue to post here if you choose, but I highly suggest sticking to weddingbee or creating a new SN.  Just asking for us to move past it isn't that easy.  You need to prove that you're more mature than you've shown for the past month, which is going to be incredibly difficult.  Not to mention that we just went through this exact thing with your friend, which turned out to be an empty apology and nothing changed.

    This is a small but great community on MB, and you made some horrible accusations against a well liked member of that community.  Whether she forgives you is up to her, but I know I wouldn't if I were her.  And regardless, we don't forget.
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  • Beachy730Beachy730 member
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    edited December 2011
    Also, even people on weddingbee have told you to stop posting over here since you hate it so much and just complain about us.  I really, really don't get why you keep coming back then.
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  • KendallR10KendallR10 member
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    edited December 2011
    Don't worry we're waiting to get married until 2012 because of money
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  • calindicalindi member
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    edited December 2011
    And I'll bet $20 that you'll be broken up by the time your "wedding" is supposed to take place.  You have permanently etched yourself as an immature, self-involved child in my mind.  At this point, I just feel bad for everyone who has to deal with you.

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  • edited December 2011
    I personally didn't like the assumptions you made about me, and I thank you for being honest over at the other site on how you fell about me. If you didn't like my veiws on here you could have asked or PM'd me if you realy wanted to know me.I will add, and will slightly step to your level and be honest here(TK) and say I would be embarressed if you were my daughter, as you would be of me as you stated on a completly other site. I will also be adult enough to give my reasonsings which are how you have acted and and handled alot of things here and other sites over and over. At least I am giving you a reason on  how I came to that conclusion of why. The difference between us, is  I am saying it here so that you can read it where we both communicate on this site and not on some completly different site.I will also add, nor did I care for alot of other stuff that you had stated on TK and WB about others.

    So for me, I am so done with you and your other buddie who had to blatently and publicly make accusations and attacked someone about what happened to you. You could have easily put her in check. It's called sticking up for yourself and NOT have someone else do it for you. There might have been a slight show of respect for you on here if you would have done that.. But, how it all played out was so high school. Nor, I don't see you getting upset with her for adding fuel to the fire and throwing your name out there the way she did unless you knew she was going to do that and you thought it would be ok to have her do the dirty work for you. If you do call her out on the carpet now, in all honestly, it's too late.

    Good luck and good bye.
  • KendallR10KendallR10 member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_military-brides_not-sami-joe?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:13Discussion:5a24f989-b940-4e71-a203-0e9ef00cf9b4Post:4b5d3acb-f1f0-4454-a3d8-d4af4eb9ede1">Re: It was not sami Joe</a>:
    [QUOTE]And I'll bet $20 that you'll be broken up by the time your "wedding" is supposed to take place.  You have permanently etched yourself as an immature, self-involved child in my mind.  At this point, I just feel bad for everyone who has to deal with you.
    Posted by calindi[/QUOTE]
    And I bet you 100 that we won't be
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  • calindicalindi member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_military-brides_not-sami-joe?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:13Discussion:5a24f989-b940-4e71-a203-0e9ef00cf9b4Post:c6e1f5de-3fa0-493d-8dd3-d7bbbdd0e686">Re: It was not sami Joe</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: It was not sami Joe : And I bet you 100 that we won't be
    Posted by KendallR10[/QUOTE]

    Let's just make it an even $1000. I have a feeling I'll be doubling my money.

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  • edited December 2011
    of course you think youll still be together you are still in the honeymoon stage. you havent had enough time to get to know your significant other or even work through the tough times, and the fights, and the times where you might feel like you hate each other...you havebnt had a chance to figure out if its worth working through. of course some people it will work out....but not everyone
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  • edited December 2011
    stop. digging. a bigger. hole.

    I love the military board because it's people with whom we can easily relate, that aren't afraid to be blunt and honest (we all need that sometimes). STOP RUINING IT.
  • bltatabltata member
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    edited December 2011
    Hey girls, if you really felt the need to start high school drama, why don't you stop poking the girls you started drama with with a sharp stick?

    My advice to people who want forgiveness or whatever your goals are is to just use the boards if you need advice on your dress, accessories, food, or other wedding related details.  These all have special boards with girls willing to answer your questions.

    As for personal relationships or friendships that have been cultivated by other brides on the board...  You had your chances.  I'm sorry but you made people not like you, and they aren't obligated to change their minds.  Just keep it professional on TK now and move on.
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