Ok, so I'm bored and I think I've read every post today at least twice... Guess that means I could do a little intro.
I'm AD AF (enlisted), am divorced (he was Army) and I have a 2yo daughter. I can't regret my marriage because of my little one, who is the most amazing thing ever. But I have learned A LOT from it. While I'm not planning a "real" wedding right now, my sister and I like to dream and plan and so we spend a lot of time on TK and, in her case, in bridal magazines. I think we've probably planned something like 6 or 7 "dream" weddings in the last 10 years.
 
Some day I hope to announce I'm marrying the most amazing man ever and will actually get to plan my dream wedding. Until then, I'll probably sit back and continue to feel like a stalker as I lurk in the cyberspace shadows reading all of your posts. (Insert creepy stalker music here...) And by the way, I love reading this board, and I love wine!