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How to include step sister who is not a bridesmaid?

So I have a dilemma hopefully someone might be able to help me with.  I have two stepsisters who have been in my life since I was 11, one I am very close with and the other we have both accepted that we are both very different individuals and cannot manage to have a relationship so we only talk or see each other at family gatherings.  The one I am close with is one of my bridemaids but the other one is not, that decision was agreed upon with my parents and I and I dont believe she is hurt by it as she only would have done it because she felt obligated to.  However this past summer we've been getting along better-I think we both are now at points in our lives where we realize that though we're different we can finally get past everything.  So therefore I would like to include her in the wedding, hopefully in more a role than the typical "giving a reading" because everyone does that for someone close.  I still don't want to make her a bridesmaid as given her past she could flip the switch at any point and decide to not get along again....any suggestions for her role?  Our ceremony will not really be a religious one, it isn't in a church but in an opera house.  I appreciate any feedback!
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