I would appreciate advice from all you wise ladies. My husband and I tied the knot last summer before he deployed to Iraq. We were planning on doing a vow renewal on our anniversary this upcoming summer. However, his deployment was cut short (yay!) and now the Army has new plans for him that are just vague and indecisive enough for us to make it very risky financially to plan a vow renewal.
My question is, do I send notice to all our STD recipients that the event is off, or do we just let them assume, since we haven't and won't be sending out formal invites, that the event is off until further notice?