So I seem to be having a few problems with my BP. This issue is by far the largest. This is a bit long so sorry in advance.
6 months ago I got all my BP together and we had a girl’s (and guy) day out. We had discussed our budget for the day and decided to eat at Olive Garden. We get there and she starts tossing back mixed drinks, then she orders a bunch of food…long story short she runs up a large bill. She claims that she is a poor college student (aren’t we all.) and that she can’t afford her bill. Of course she says this after 6 mixed drinks at $8 a piece and a $20 plate. She looks at me and tosses the bill at me and says “here you pay it.” I knew she was drunk and having a hard time at home. Her parents put her on a short lease since she moved back in and her car was crashed into, so I let it slide. We all chipped in paid her side.
For her birthday she threw a tattoo party, I said I would go but had to back out at the last minute. I am currently a nurse/maid to my two terminally ill grandparents and I get very little help taking care of them, my granny had a bad dialysis and couldn’t be left alone. I found out from another BM that she spent that whole time talking crap behind my back and saying that the only reason my FI is marrying me is because I “was” pregnant. So people started calling me and asking when I was due and that I didn’t look 5 months (FI left 6 months prior), needless to say I was furious. I had a talk with her and she started crying and saying she was sorry and pretty much blamed it on her home life.
We went out to eat tonight to celebrate BM’s boyfriend’s birthday. We were all exchanging hugs when I accidently scratched her with my ring. She cried for an hour and a half about how much it hurt, you couldn’t even see where I scratched her! I apologized and she still wouldn’t let it go. Her BF asked about the wedding and she cut me off while answering him saying “you're not the only one who is engaged you know.” She likes to tell people that she and her BF are engaged but there is no ring, wedding date and if you ask him he says he is not ready to get engaged. Which was rude, and then she proceeds to ask my FI in front of everyone if he has ever killed someone, how does he feel about it. She asks me how I could be in love with a killer and says that he will go to hell for what he has done. AT this point I was done, I told her she could go to hell for all I care and other choice words and we walked out. Her BF and two of the BMs think I was wrong in my behavior and should tell her sorry. Was I? I am still pretty upset that she would disrespect my FI like that. I want her out of my BP and my life.
So the question is, am I wrong, crazy, a drama queen?