Would you wonderful ladies please lend some advice!
My FI and I are stuck on a tough decision. We are stationed in Jacksonville FL and his family is in KY and my parents live in VA (my dad is retired navy, so they were stationed there) - The rest of my family is pretty spread out. So no matter what travel will be involved.
On top of that, the two girls I asked to be in my bridal party said no due to travel, even after offering to pay for their dresses. Which I really do understand - it's a big thing to ask someone to do.
BUT the question is: How do we decide where we want to do the wedding, especially when travel is asking a lot of people. Do we put the financial burden on ourselves when it comes to travel and travel to them, and travel to do the wedding planning. Or do we ask them to do the travel to us? I really need some input! How did you ladies decide?