So we had planned on doing a destination wedding in Mexico. Then my fiance's mother got VERY upset saying that she couldn't leave work during that time. She made us an offer, if we would have our wedding here, she would pay our airfare to Mexico for our honeymoon. Sounded great! We had already started buying things, paid our DJ, venue, put $2000 down on our honeymoon, etc. My fiance called her a couple of weeks ago to tell her that she should buy the tickets fairly soon and she backed out, saying that she didn't realize that she couldn't use miles since Alaska Airlines doesn't fly to Cancun. Now we had to chose between our big wedding and our vacation, we chose the vacation.
We have decided to push it up to 11-10-10 and do a family only dinner at one of the nicer restaurants in town and do the ceremony there but we are at a loss for how this is going to work. It isn't a private room but a corner section of the restaurant and I have no idea if I still do a bouquet, do I enter after everyone is there? Do we just come in together? Do we eat after or let people have apps first?? I really have NO idea what to do!!