My fiance will be joining the US Navy and we're planning a small civil ceremony with our parents and a few friends with the intent of having a religious blessing ceremony and reception for our entire families and more friends in 2013. What I'm struggling with is how that should be accomplished - will I be foregoing the traditions of picking out a bridal gown, having a bridal shower, walking down the aisle with my father, planning a dinner, flowers, registering for gifts, etc b/c John and I are planning to have a legal ceremony first? I'm a very traditional person and so is he, we still want to be able to have those rites of passage even though we have to expedite the legal process for purposes of the Navy. We want to maintain our own relationship with a religious leader and be able to have our marriage blessed by God, and as a girlie girl, I don't want to miss the fun and excitement of all the traditional activities a non-military bride gets to have.