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KendallR10KendallR10 member
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My ex boss has called me twice in the last 3 weeks at very odd hours. Once at 10 and the other at 10:45. The first one didn't creep me out but the second one did. He was asking me questions like. my address. If H was home. Where I worked. How I was getting to work. ect..

Should I report that to the BBB or write him a letter about his bad business practices?
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  • LetsHikeTodayLetsHikeToday member
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    edited December 2011
    Did you answer him? What type of job was this? I'd block his number first and foremost.
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  • KendallR10KendallR10 member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_military-brides_advice-5?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:13Discussion:b4ce38af-4c74-4d10-8026-0c5126ff9db2Post:73acf6b8-c6b8-4182-950c-e01e64208bad">Re: Advice..</a>:
    [QUOTE]Did you answer him? What type of job was this? I'd block his number first and foremost.
    Posted by LetsHikeToday[/QUOTE]
    I told him that I worked at target. I didn't know if H was home because I wasn't there. <div>
    </div><div>This was my security job</div>
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  • LetsHikeTodayLetsHikeToday member
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    edited December 2011
    Block his number and call his supervisor
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  • tyleet87tyleet87 member
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    edited December 2011
    Why would you even let him continue asking weird questions? If he is not your boss anymore and you are not planning on working for him again I would simply tell him it's not his concern and hang up.
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  • firemedicrrfiremedicrr
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_military-brides_advice-5?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:13Discussion:b4ce38af-4c74-4d10-8026-0c5126ff9db2Post:30983a52-4397-4f7e-85a2-e6528b89c828">Re: Advice..</a>:
    [QUOTE]Why would you even let him continue asking weird questions? If he is not your boss anymore and you are not planning on working for him again I would simply tell him it's not his concern and hang up.
    Posted by tyleet87[/QUOTE]

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    </div><div>agreed, I don't understand why you'd answer anyway.</div>
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  • KendallR10KendallR10 member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_military-brides_advice-5?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:13Discussion:b4ce38af-4c74-4d10-8026-0c5126ff9db2Post:f0396565-aa7b-4998-8630-abc4939d03d2">Re: Advice..</a>:
    [QUOTE]Block his number and call his supervisor
    Posted by LetsHikeToday[/QUOTE]
    He's the owner of the company. Do I talk to my brother about it?
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  • BinxRoseBinxRose member
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    edited December 2011
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  • KendallR10KendallR10 member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_military-brides_advice-5?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:13Discussion:b4ce38af-4c74-4d10-8026-0c5126ff9db2Post:9679aa17-0573-4715-b214-972c89b029f8">Re: Advice..</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Advice.. : agreed, I don't understand why you'd answer anyway.
    Posted by firemedicrr[/QUOTE]
    It came from the main office phone and I thought it was my brother
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  • LetsHikeTodayLetsHikeToday member
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    edited December 2011
    Why your brother? Block his phone number.
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  • KendallR10KendallR10 member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_military-brides_advice-5?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:13Discussion:b4ce38af-4c74-4d10-8026-0c5126ff9db2Post:c52e44e2-85d1-4f20-9e30-451d4e077140">Re: Advice..</a>:
    [QUOTE]Why your brother? Block his phone number.
    Posted by LetsHikeToday[/QUOTE]
    my brother is the co owner of the company
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  • LetsHikeTodayLetsHikeToday member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_military-brides_advice-5?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:13Discussion:b4ce38af-4c74-4d10-8026-0c5126ff9db2Post:bfd7c7e0-cdbf-412a-88af-96e38a0e49f8">Re: Advice..</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Advice.. : my brother is the co owner of the company
    Posted by KendallR10[/QUOTE]

    Well then yes, obviously.
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  • ggirl2001ggirl2001 member
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    edited December 2011
    Hahaha Hike.

    Here's my advice. Call your brother. Problem solved. Don't ask internet strangers. 
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  • calindicalindi member
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    edited December 2011
    Kendall, what he's doing isn't representing the company.  BBB is for reporting things about clients, mostly, like not honoring gift certificates or following the refund policy or being discriminatory towards clients of some sort of ethnic or religious background.

    What he's doing is stalking.  If he calls again, tell him that you don't want him to contact you anymore and if he continues, it's stalking and you'll report him.  Then don't talk anymore, don't answer his calls going forward (screen any calls that you don't know exactly who they are coming from and let them go to voicemail).  And if he keeps calling, call the police.


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  • SamiJoeBSamiJoeB
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    edited December 2011
    Gosh. Married, Pregnant, and now you have a stalker... You are so freaking cool Kendall.



    Also, Didn't your brother go out on a limb to get you that job.  Way to shove that back in his face by quitting because you got what you obviously consider to be a better job. 
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  • AmandaSC1988AmandaSC1988 member
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_military-brides_advice-5?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:13Discussion:b4ce38af-4c74-4d10-8026-0c5126ff9db2Post:de60ab91-bd1e-4644-bfe4-68624feb4846">Re: Advice..</a>:
    [QUOTE]Hahaha Hike. Here's my advice. Call your brother. Problem solved. <strong>Don't ask internet strangers. 
    </strong>Posted by ggirl2001[/QUOTE]

    THIS! I don't know if you act this way in real life, but you need to stop relying on internetland to make your decisions. Normally when I ask for suggestions on here, no offense, but these ladies are the last people I ask for help (besides wedding stuff), If I have a military question I asked FI or I look it up. If I have an issue such as this I would have talkedto my brother first, and then consulted my FI, and then probably talked to the police and then I would have AWed an interesting story about it all. 

    It isn't really healthy to be relying on complete strangers to make your decisions. Then again, I don't know you, you could be that person that tells everyone in wal-mart your whole life story.



    Oh I can just see your response now.... "*ignoring the majority of the post* But I don't shop at wal-mart"

    Am I right?
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  • KendallR10KendallR10 member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_military-brides_advice-5?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:13Discussion:b4ce38af-4c74-4d10-8026-0c5126ff9db2Post:83463648-c508-4267-b154-e7c29915ff00">Re: Advice..</a>:
    [QUOTE]Gosh. Married, Pregnant, and now you have a stalker... You are so freaking cool Kendall. Also, Didn't your brother go out on a limb to get you that job.  Way to shove that back in his face by quitting because you got what you obviously consider to be a better job. 
    Posted by SamiJoeB[/QUOTE]
    No he didn't. I quit after being lied too and being flipped out on for being at my other job. 
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