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Rant

Can I just say, that it REALLY pisses me off that I can't sleep because I'm still so upset about this. I know I shouldn't let it bug me, but I bothers me that anyone would even think that I would go so far as to contact someone IRL (GG & Calindi excluded). I would never. EVER. Just because other people are careless with OPSEC and PERSEC, doesn't mean I am, and it certainly doesn't mean that I would violate their blatant disregard for either. It pisses me off that 2 children just assumed that it was me and didn't so much as stop to perhaps ASK me before trashing me in a post. And have still yet to apologize to me for their assumption.

No, I am not the nicest person in the world, nor have I ever claimed to be.. I am blunt, direct, snarky, and if I'm being honest, yes, I can be a PITA, 1st class b!tch. Just because I voice an opinon that you are too immature to handle, does not mean that I care enough to look you up IRL. And if your "marriage is over" because lurker did do that, well it probably wasn't on the most solid ground in the first place.

Kendall-I'm very sorry that this happened to you. I think Stan is right and that you'd be better off on the Bee, because they seem to love you over there, and at this point I think that there are too many black marks on your rep for you to stay on here and be well recieved. Maybe I'm wrong, and maybe you could come back from all this, but I think it would take a very long time.. Again, I'm sorry that someone did this to you, but it wasn't me.

I'm done now.. Hopefully we can have a drama free Sunday.
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  • edited December 2011
    And I'm glad/hope no one got taken away by the Rapture...



    although Calindi and Shan have been MIA...Wink
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  • edited December 2011
    Wow, I wasn't on all day....I sure did miss a lot!  I hope everyone figures everything out!  I really don't think any of the girls that actually consistently post would seek out anyone's FI, I think we are all pretty open with how we feel!

    But like you said hopefully this makes people take PERSEC/OPSEC more seriously.  Its so easy to slip up and I know I even do it sometimes without realizing!  It is something that we all need to be more conscience of! 
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  • calindicalindi member
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    edited December 2011
    Yowza... I go to one wedding and this happens! Did the Rapture get Katelyn and Kendall? Cuz that would be awesome. I find it surprising that someone went to the trouble of seeking out Kendall's FI, but I kinda want to give the person a pat on the back. If she provided enough info to find her or him, they deserve to be told that they're violating OPSEC/PERSEC and exactly what that means, as well as the possible negative ramifications from a secret JOP so poor little Kendall can get health insurance since she's not grown up enough to handle the problem like every other adult - suck it up and get a job with insurance or pay for it yourself.

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  • calindicalindi member
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    edited December 2011
    Did a thread get deleted that I missed? Because I don't see where this all went down.

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  • ggirl2001ggirl2001 member
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    edited December 2011
    I feel like singing the Mary J. Blige song No More Drama.

    Anyone?
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  • edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_military-brides_rant?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:13Discussion:b52120e4-79a9-4569-a191-f0fc704dfd2cPost:d8564bc3-b544-4f27-8bec-c8da2e3a962b">Re: Rant</a>:
    [QUOTE]Did a thread get deleted that I missed? Because I don't see where this all went down.
    Posted by calindi[/QUOTE]

    <div>I was wondering the same thing!</div>
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  • ggirl2001ggirl2001 member
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    edited December 2011
    Check out the SamiJoe thread that Katelyn posted. It indicates that supposedly SamiJoe contacted Kendalls FI through facebook. Sami doesn't even have a facebook so it wasn't her.
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  • Beachy730Beachy730 member
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    edited December 2011
    Yeah it was completley out of the blue.  Someone on E found the board on Weddingbee that Kendall had said it happened though.

    TBH honest, I think they made it up.  Apparently her FI deleted the post immediately.  Everyone on weddingbee told her to call the police and/or report her over here (whoever it was), and she just was all nonchalant and said he deleted it.  Really, there is absolutely no proof of it happening, they are completely insistent that it was Sami, who doesn't even have a FB.  I think they made it up.  I know it's toootaly unlike them though to start drama.
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  • ggirl2001ggirl2001 member
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    edited December 2011
    I was wondering if perhaps somebody was lurking here who knew of Kendall and/or her FI and sent it? (maybe met them once or twice or something).  We never really know who is lurking on these boards and not posting.

    I'm just about done with it though. I don't think they are going to come back and I think its through.

    Sami- I heart you. Don't worry about an apology. It's not worth it and won't mean anything. I get your upset, I would be too, but its just not worth. The people who matter know it wasn't you.
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  • edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_military-brides_rant?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:13Discussion:b52120e4-79a9-4569-a191-f0fc704dfd2cPost:c03cc9ab-427a-45bd-aa7f-643263c83a6b">Re: Rant</a>:
    [QUOTE]  Apparently her FI deleted the post immediately.  Everyone on weddingbee told her to call the police and/or report her over here (whoever it was), and she just was all nonchalant and said he deleted it.  Really, there is absolutely no proof of it happening, they are completely insistent that it was Posted by dnbeach12[/QUOTE]

    I totaly agree with you on this Beach. That was my EXACT thought too, given the track record.
  • calindicalindi member
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    edited December 2011
    Anyone got the link to the second WB rant?

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  • edited December 2011
    I'm sorry Sami.
    This is so stupid. I definitely missed whatever happened yesterday, and I'm thankful I did.
    I appreciate your blunt honestly, even when I don't agree at times or when it's directed towards me at times. That's how life is; and that's the risk everyone runs when posting in a public forum (not even a "risk" but the POINT really).
    Don't let someone you don't know keep you awake at night. You're so much better than that, to worry about something childish and immature (not that you are in any respect, but that the spiral of the topic regarding this girl is, including the girl).
    Hope you're feeling better.
  • edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_military-brides_rant?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:13Discussion:b52120e4-79a9-4569-a191-f0fc704dfd2cPost:95c3a6ec-22b9-45a6-861b-46e867eb6f84">Re: Rant</a>:
    [QUOTE]And I'm glad/hope no one got taken away by the Rapture... although Calindi and Shan have been MIA...
    Posted by SamiJoeB[/QUOTE]

    I'm here!! I had my bachelorette Party yesterday. We are in the final leg of the race :) and I am workign fewer days a week but longer hours, so my days off are full of last minute details, which sadly doesn't include TK! :(
  • calindicalindi member
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    edited December 2011
    HOLY CRAP SHAN!!! When did we get down to the 1 week countdown???


    Shoot... I'm going to blink and it'll be my turn!

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  • ggirl2001ggirl2001 member
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    edited December 2011
    Yay Shan!!!

    Calindi-yeah it comes up fast. I remember when I was a year and  3 months out. Now I'm just 3 months out :)
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