Is anyone else planning the wedding he, or possibly you, are deployed? I feel stupid in feeling overwhelmed and not sure what comes next and that it's all not going to go smoothly because he isn't here to double check the details that are being selected. Probably sound a little whiney, but after an evening of looking in to wedding details I'm feeling a little stressed. And due to the time difference can't talk to him about it just yet. How do you keep your head straight in all this when mostly doing it alone?