I have lurked for a while, but I never post on this board. To be completely honest I am scared to post here from fear of being yelled at...
But I am completely heartbroken and lets face it the month boards really don't understand. In fact, I don't really know how many of you lady's are Long Distance and would understand. But, I'm sure most have you have been here before. My FI and I are long distance, I in Oklahoma, he in Florida..
A couple months ago, he found out he had a four day weekend for 4th of July for the command he is in. That is almost exactly a year from our wedding (or at least the date we selected) so we had made plans for him to come home to do wedding stuff. for the past month he has been at C School and he didn't think anything of it because he actually graduates Thursday and it was going to work out perfectly. Apparently the CO for the training command decided that he was only giving out 3 day weekends and was holding all the people that graduate this week until Friday. My FI told me this last week and it has been a back and forth game all week. He told me earlier today that his instructor assured him that he would be graduating tomorrow...well, as luck would have it... his instructor texted him at 9pm to tell him that no matter how hard he tried, they can't graduate tomorrow, the CO won't allow it.
I have seen my FI 48hours since he proposed in March, and I'm working full time at an internship so I don't have time to fly out and see him, and he can't come home but on long weekends.
I know other people have it way worse. But I would almost rather have him on a boat and know he can't come back because it is his JOB. Than have my heart broken when it is less than 24hrs before he is supposed to come home and have him jerked away for no real apparent reason.
I feel completely alone.