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  • SamiJoeBSamiJoeB
    1000 Comments Combo Breaker
    edited December 2011

    Confession(s):

    • I'm tired to doing the exact same assignment week after week in my design class.  It's exciting  the first time to compare and contrast two different types of architecture, mildly interesting the second time, and really freaking old 10 weeks into the semester.  If this is interior design, No thank you.  I just don't find 32 different types of columns THAT interesting.
    • H got a new tattoo, and I am less than thrilled.  He's super excited, and I could tell he wanted me to also be super excited, but I just don't like the design, plus it's not my body.  I mean.. I have to look at it, and it's a 1/4 sleeve, so it's big.  He tried to argue that he had no say in the tattoos that I have and I'm like.. Uh.. No, because I got them before I met you.  Both of his now, he's gotten while we've been together, and I wasn't consulted on either of them (not that I'm saying I HAVE to be..) That's all well and good, but don't get upset with me for my lackluster enthusiasm.  Besides that, I'm sure it was STUPID expensive, and I always discuss large purchases with him, but since its "on his body" he does have to? I mean, it's over and done with now, so there isn't much I can do about it.
    • My boss and a co-worker are going to convention this weekend and into next week.  I was invited but because of school I can't go (I would miss my Friday class, and Monday classes, as well as a test in my online class).  My boss asked a FORMER (She quit with no notice) employee to come in and work while she's gone rather than even offer me, or the other lady that works with us the hours.  The other lady has 10 kids and could use the extra money, as could I, but no let’s give the woman who quit (again WITH NO NOTICE!!!) receives a pension, and "Doesn't have to worry about money" (Her words, not mine..) extra hours.  SERIOUSLY?!
    • My last confession is just that I've been really grumpy, bordering on depressed lately and I didn't want to "infect" the board with my bad moods.  Whenever I get like this I get super b!tchy, and way over-sensitive so it seems easier to just stay away.  I used to have a ton of friends here and now everyone I was friends with is gone, and I know it's because we're in our 20's and most of them have finished school and are getting their first "real" jobs, and I was off in the Navy and getting married, and so now I'm in school, but I feel like I have a really hard time relating to anyone in my classes or at school period.  I'm constantly surrounded by "older" women at work, and at school my classmates are all either like 18 and right out of HS, if they are close to my age they are single moms, and then its people my parents age.  I would love to be able to go out to a bar, or a movie, or go to freakin lunch with someone that I could actually relate to.  Instead I'm always working, doing homework, or babysitting a 13 y/o who doesn't need a baby sitter in the first place, and she's moving away in a few weeks.  My H is my best friend and I can't see him, or even talk to him when I want to, let alone when I really need him.  I just feel super alone and while I've always been okay on my own, it's just really started getting to me lately..
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  • melbelle24melbelle24 member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_military-brides_confessions-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:13Discussion:fa0626d6-d93a-4b69-894c-775fb27928cbPost:991ebfca-41a0-48df-ad71-cc43ae798a89">Re: Confessions...</a>:
    [QUOTE]Confession(s): My last confession is just that I've been really grumpy, bordering on depressed lately and I didn't want to "infect" the board with my bad moods.   Whenever I get like this I get super b!tchy, and way over-sensitive so it seems easier to just stay away.   I used to have a ton of friends here and now everyone I was friends with is gone, and I know it's because we're in our 20's and most of them have finished school and are getting their first "real" jobs, and I was off in the Navy and getting married, and so now I'm in school, but I feel like I have a really hard time relating to anyone in my classes or at school period.   I'm constantly surrounded by "older" women at work, and at school my classmates are all either like 18 and right out of HS, if they are close to my age they are single moms, and then its people my parents age.   I would love to be able to go out to a bar, or a movie, or go to freakin lunch with someone that I could actually relate to.   Instead I'm always working, doing homework, or babysitting a 13 y/o who doesn't need a baby sitter in the first place, and she's moving away in a few weeks.   My H is my best friend and I can't see him, or even talk to him when I want to, let alone when I really need him.   I just feel super alone and while I've always been okay on my own, it's just really started getting to me lately..
    Posted by SamiJoeB[/QUOTE]
    Sami, I'm sorry you're feeling this way! I know how it feels, and it majorly sucks. I wish I had some great words of wisdom for you. All I can say is to try to find something you can do for fun, something just for you. I know that can be hard to do with everything else going on, but it's the only thing I've found to give me a chance to sort of recharge my life when I get in those kind of funks. Long distance SUCKS.
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  • ggirl2001ggirl2001 member
    Ninth Anniversary 2500 Comments 5 Love Its Combo Breaker
    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_military-brides_confessions-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:13Discussion:fa0626d6-d93a-4b69-894c-775fb27928cbPost:991ebfca-41a0-48df-ad71-cc43ae798a89">Re: Confessions...</a>:
    [QUOTE]Confession(s): I'm tired to doing the exact same assignment week after week in my design class.   It's exciting   the first time to compare and contrast two different types of architecture, mildly interesting the second time, and really freaking old 10 weeks into the semester.   If this is interior design, No thank you.   I just don't find 32 different types of columns THAT interesting. H got a new tattoo, and I am less than thrilled.   He's super excited, and I could tell he wanted me to also be super excited, but I just don't like the design, plus it's not my body.   I mean.. I have to look at it, and it's a 1/4 sleeve, so it's big.   He tried to argue that he had no say in the tattoos that I have and I'm like.. Uh.. No, because I got them before I met you.   Both of his now, he's gotten while we've been together, and I wasn't consulted on either of them (not that I'm saying I HAVE to be..) That's all well and good, but don't get upset with me for my lackluster enthusiasm.   Besides that, I'm sure it was STUPID expensive, and I always discuss large purchases with him, but since its "on his body" he does have to? I mean, it's over and done with now, so there isn't much I can do about it. My boss and a co-worker are going to convention this weekend and into next week.   I was invited but because of school I can't go (I would miss my Friday class, and Monday classes, as well as a test in my online class).   My boss asked a FORMER (She quit with no notice) employee to come in and work while she's gone rather than even offer me, or the other lady that works with us the hours.   The other lady has 10 kids and could use the extra money, as could I, but no let’s give the woman who quit (again WITH NO NOTICE!!!) receives a pension, and "Doesn't have to worry about money" (Her words, not mine..) extra hours.   SERIOUSLY?! My last confession is just that I've been really grumpy, bordering on depressed lately and I didn't want to "infect" the board with my bad moods.   Whenever I get like this I get super b!tchy, and way over-sensitive so it seems easier to just stay away.   I used to have a ton of friends here and now everyone I was friends with is gone, and I know it's because we're in our 20's and most of them have finished school and are getting their first "real" jobs, and I was off in the Navy and getting married, and so now I'm in school, but I feel like I have a really hard time relating to anyone in my classes or at school period.   I'm constantly surrounded by "older" women at work, and at school my classmates are all either like 18 and right out of HS, if they are close to my age they are single moms, and then its people my parents age.   I would love to be able to go out to a bar, or a movie, or go to freakin lunch with someone that I could actually relate to.   Instead I'm always working, doing homework, or babysitting a 13 y/o who doesn't need a baby sitter in the first place, and she's moving away in a few weeks.   My H is my best friend and I can't see him, or even talk to him when I want to, let alone when I really need him.   I just feel super alone and while I've always been okay on my own, it's just really started getting to me lately..
    Posted by SamiJoeB[/QUOTE]
    Sami! My H is leaving for a month soon wanna make a trip to meet up??? 
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  • CAB1217CAB1217
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    edited December 2011
    :( Oh Sami... I've been wondering why you've been less than active lately. In fact, I find myself thinking that about a few of you, lately. It makes me sads. ***Big hugs*** We're here for you. You can always bitch it out to us! :)
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  • SamiJoeBSamiJoeB
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    edited December 2011
    Thanks Ladies! I actually feel better today.  I'll confess that I was totally crying the entire time I typed that, and then I went to bed, but when I woke up I was feeling better!  I guess I just needed to get it out and tell someone how I was feeling!  You ladies are THE BEST and I seriously want to hug all of you!!!!  Hugs for EVERYONE!!!
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  • KendallR10KendallR10 member
    1000 Comments
    edited December 2011
    My confession: I wish my grandmother would stop telling me I'm fat. 
    I wish Jan would hurry up and get here. 

    Military Brides December 2011 Siggy. Holiday picture with your SO. We suck and don't have one :/ Those who matter don't mind and those who mind don't matter.
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  • calindicalindi member
    5000 Comments Second Anniversary Combo Breaker
    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_military-brides_confessions-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:13Discussion:fa0626d6-d93a-4b69-894c-775fb27928cbPost:afc2b3ce-c354-4803-85bc-43e1a1ffd842">Re: Confessions...</a>:
    [QUOTE]My confession: I wish my grandmother would stop telling me I'm fat.  I wish Jan would hurry up and get here. 
    Posted by KendallR10[/QUOTE]

    Why Jan?  I thought you were getting married in November.  And I thought that was for certain.

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  • KendallR10KendallR10 member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_military-brides_confessions-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:13Discussion:fa0626d6-d93a-4b69-894c-775fb27928cbPost:cb08f22a-e348-49c0-9b7c-f8262f493625">Re: Confessions...</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Confessions... : Why Jan?  I thought you were getting married in November.  And I thought that was for certain.
    Posted by calindi[/QUOTE]
    I am. I'm getting married in one week. <div>
    </div><div>I go back to school in Jan!</div>
    Military Brides December 2011 Siggy. Holiday picture with your SO. We suck and don't have one :/ Those who matter don't mind and those who mind don't matter.
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  • KendallR10KendallR10 member
    1000 Comments
    edited December 2011
    One more confession: I just got home from getting the oil changed in my car and saw a guy that I went to HS with. In HS he was hard in to drugs and stuff. Well today I saw him and he cleaned his life up. He has been drug free for a year :] I don't know a ton about him but it makes me happy to see that he proved everyone wrong
    Military Brides December 2011 Siggy. Holiday picture with your SO. We suck and don't have one :/ Those who matter don't mind and those who mind don't matter.
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  • KendallR10KendallR10 member
    1000 Comments
    edited December 2011
    Last confession for the day. OMFG I am freaked out about going to work
    Military Brides December 2011 Siggy. Holiday picture with your SO. We suck and don't have one :/ Those who matter don't mind and those who mind don't matter.
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  • kyrgyzstankyrgyzstan member
    Eighth Anniversary 1000 Comments 100 Love Its Name Dropper
    edited December 2011
    My confession is that I will not let the sleeves rolled in Afghanistan thing go until Kendall gets me that photo. 

    Until then, I think she's made up.
    I hate Dave Ramsey
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  • KendallR10KendallR10 member
    1000 Comments
    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_military-brides_confessions-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:13Discussion:fa0626d6-d93a-4b69-894c-775fb27928cbPost:0ccc9b48-8183-416b-bea9-7a81b97785a7">Re: Confessions...</a>:
    [QUOTE]My confession is that I will not let the sleeves rolled in Afghanistan thing go until Kendall gets me that photo.  Until then, I think she's made up.
    Posted by WishIcouldbeinthe'stan[/QUOTE]
    I have sent him an email. I'm still waiting on a reply to it. You will get it when I get it
    Military Brides December 2011 Siggy. Holiday picture with your SO. We suck and don't have one :/ Those who matter don't mind and those who mind don't matter.
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  • kyrgyzstankyrgyzstan member
    Eighth Anniversary 1000 Comments 100 Love Its Name Dropper
    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_military-brides_confessions-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:13Discussion:fa0626d6-d93a-4b69-894c-775fb27928cbPost:e8e63513-a934-4d8d-a1fe-d2eacbf8d5c4">Re: Confessions...</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Confessions... : I have sent him an email. I'm still waiting on a reply to it. You will get it when I get it
    Posted by KendallR10[/QUOTE]

    <div>I will be on pins and needles until then.</div>
    I hate Dave Ramsey
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