I knew that there would be issues during wedding planning, but I really didn't think the ceremony would be one of them! =(
We have a venue, and they CAN do a ceremony there but my fiance really wants a church wedding. Noon is the only time that any of the churches who will take us have open (the rest require us to be affiliated, and since I'm agnostic and he grew up in another state we have nothing).
I wanted to have a 5pm cocktail reception. I don't think its right to have a 4 hour gap between ceremony and reception, but I'm not sure what I can do. Would you be really upset if you were a guest to a wedding with a 4 hour gap? Should I just stop thinking about it and hope that people understand?