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F/U Grandpa

My grandpa was diagnosed with prostate cancer last week, as most of you remember.  My Dad went with my grandparents to their oncologist's appointments this past week, and has been sending along his notes so the whole family can know what's going on.

They started hormone treatment, and apparently have a new drug that has less side effects (mood swings and such) though he'll still get hot flashes and likely will have trouble sleeping, with some other minor side effects that are mostly just inconvenient.  But he can do all his normal activities, including driving, as long as he feels up to it.  After a month, they'll start radiation.  They've got a targeted system so it won't affect his whole body, but he'll still feel weak, so he can rest as needed but otherwise keep exercising whenever he feels up to it.  He won't even lose his hair!

All in all, they give him an 85% survival rate for 5 years, which is pretty good at his age.  I'm relieved that the hormone treatment they're putting him on won't be as miserable as the old drug was supposed to be. According to the doctor, his life expectancy (considering his Mom lived until 105) is 12 years, so we're hoping to still have a good long while with my grandfather - hopefully he will even become a great-grandfather in his lifetime!

Thank you all for your thoughts and prayers.  It's going to be a long road, but I'm feeling a bit better about this now.

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  • edited December 2011
    Cate - I'm so glad to hear things are looking a little brighter. People from your grandpa's generation are a lot tougher than we think! I'm sure he'll pull through this all just fine...and you'll have many more years to make memories with him. These things are always good reminders to live every day to the fullest!
  • Hazel_BHazel_B member
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    Cate, that's wonderful news! I'm glad that you are getting some positive news in this awful situation.

    I'll be thinking about you and your family!
  • LizzyTish88LizzyTish88 member
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    Cate that is awesome! So much good news about your grandpa! Your family is still in my thoughts and prayers.
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  • PaigeMcCPaigeMcC member
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    Positive vibes, Cate.  I'm glad things are looking up.  Keeping you guys in my thoughts.

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    I am so glad to hear things are coming along well! Keep us all updated, we're thinking of you.
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  • HeartOverMindHeartOverMind member
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    That's great news! I will continue to pray that all continues to go well.
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    on a lighter note - I must admit I was confused by your subject line at first. I knew you couldn't possibly mean F/U the way I interpreted it...must be some kind of update or something?? Anyway, thought my lack of internet lingo knowledge might make you laugh a little today! (and i would love to know what it really means if anyone cares to share!)
  • MLekathLEENMLekathLEEN member
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    F/U means follow up. The other F U always comes to mind though when I read these.

    CATE- That is great news! Keeping the prayers coming your way.

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    Wow that's great news! I'm so happy that you're feeling better and just know that your grandfather is in capable hands who are doing everything possible to help him!

    Your family is in my thoughts!

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    :))))))

    Yay.
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    I can't imagine how stressful this must be. Your family is in my thoughts. I'm glad to hear you have some positive news!
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    It's nice to hear about a good prognosis.
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    I'm glad that there is some positive news!!!  I'm continuing to pray for you and your family.
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    Allusive - I think i tmeans 'follow up' :)

    Calindi - that's great news that they've found a different drug for him with more manageable side effects. Nothing like the 'c' word to remind us to cherish every day with our family and friends.
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    I'm glad things are looking up!  :)
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    I'm so glad there's a plan now!  That really alleviates so much of the stress with medical stuff.  BF's grandpa is going strong after a bout with prostate cancer 10 or so years ago - he's still the most active guy I know, so I hope your grandpa can join him as a survivor!
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    Good to hear good news...I'm keeping you guys in my thoughts and prayers.

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  • desertsundesertsun member
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    Cate, I'm really glad the prognosis looks good! 
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  • marleylikeairmarleylikeair member
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    Cate, I'm so glad to hear that there's some good news. Sending you good vibes and big hugs.
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    Thank you, everyone!  Your support means a lot.

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  • leia1979leia1979 member
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    Late to the party, but I'm so glad to hear that! I hope your grandpa does well with the treatment.

    And I'm glad I'm not the only one who can't help but think F/U doesn't mean follow up.  ;)
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