My boyfriend and I have been dating a year. I'm pretty much the only grandchild who is potentially getting married amongst my relatives. I know were getting married someday because we constantly discuss our future.: It's hard to be patient and wait for our time when left and right people say, "there going to be another weddig soon? Or ,"I expected you to have a ring when you came backwent on vacation with his family last month. Or my cousin who asked me if he proposed after only 5 months! We both want to be financially stable before marriage and this makes waiting hard when everyone expects it and friends I know are getting married. Any advice?