Seriously. I was NOT one of those girls who planned her wedding starting at the age of 5. I have no idea what I want, and FI isn't super helpful. He really couldn't care less about our wedding, as long as at the end of the day we're married. Which is good (since, ya know, the point of a wedding is to get married), it's just not helping right now.
Big or small? Sit-down dinner or informal reception? Those are my biggest problems right now, because really until we get that nailed down, we can't do too much venue-wise.
I'm not much for dancing, but I know a lot of our guests would love it if we decide to go the standard dinner and dance reception route. I've never been to a wedding where that wasn't the case, so I don't know how people would feel otherwise. My newest idea is to have a decent sized ceremony and cocktail reception at one venue, then go for pictures, then a smaller dinner with family and close friends. It feels more authentic for us, and is kind of the best of both worlds, but I dunno.
Haha I guess just share your experiences - tell me about different weddings you've been to, or what you did yourself.