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Do I get a membership card?

Does relationship limbo have monthly dues? So the bf and I sat down yesterday to discuss financial matters, we ended up drawing up a loose outline for the future. After the numbers were crunched and we talked about what each of us were expecting and wanting in the years to come. Not surprisingly we found ourselves on very much the same page, which really isn't that hard to do when you have what you're financially capable of staring at you from a notepad. He told me that I could expect a proposal sometime next year, he stayed vague enough to keep the pretty princess in me happy that there would still be a big element of surprise but specific enough to silence the BSC part of me.I have to admit that I am so relieved to have this bit of information. Twice already, since this conversation we've been hit with questions from others about when we're getting married and I've got my little storage closet in my brain of responses for such questions but for the first time I didn't have that little voice in the back of my head going "yeah...when or is that going to happen?"It also gives me ample time to do my own research on all things wedding (with out feeling guilty) which is fabulous because I'm the kind of person who simply cannot make a decision until they feel that they know all there is to know about whatever the task at hand is.I'm bored and it's slow so I figured I'd share.
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Re: Do I get a membership card?

  • edited December 2011
    since this conversation we've been hit with questions from others about when we're getting married and I've got my little storage closet in my brain of responses for such questionsI hope your closet now includes my "Sometime after we get engaged" response. That seemed popular in that thread a couple of days ago.It's awesome to get on the same page and have confirmation that you are indeed headed in the same direction as the person you love. Way to go! :)
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  • edited December 2011
    yes for every month you are in relationship limbo you owe me a batch of cookies!It's good that you and your BF can sit down and really talk about all these things because I know far too many people that don't have such great communication skills (I'm guilty of it too on occasion).As far as the when are you getting married questions I'd steal Jeana's response - sometime after you get engaged : )
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  • edited December 2011
    Well that's good you guys are on the same page.  Do you live together now or is that in the future plans as wel?
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  • edited December 2011
    After that thread the other day I was so excited to use the "after we get engaged" answer that it practically flew out of my mouth yesterday when I had to answer the question again. I think that was the only time I've ever been happy to have been asked it, worked like a charm. :-DWe do currently live together. Renting for not but we're working towards buying a home.
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  • edited December 2011
    Haha! Virtual high-five, baby! WOO!We showed them!
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  • edited December 2011
    haha jeanacorina if you start getting packages from a secret admirer it's probably me.
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