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Not Such a Surprise...

My birthday is on Wednesday, and I accidentally found out today that BF is planning a surprise party!  I don't know any details, but I was sitting next to my colleague (and friend) at lunch, and she was looking something up on Facebook and I caught a glimpse of a message from BF that said, "Shhh! It's a surprise!" as the title before she quickly turned her phone away from me.  I pretended I hadn't seen it.

I know it's not before Tuesday night, as he's got finals until Monday so he wouldn't have time.  But now I'm nervous!  I have no idea who he invited, who will be coming, where it'll be, when it'll be.  I also have no idea what to wear since I don't know any of the above!

Haha... ya know, he was totally right to do a surprise party since I tend to like to control all aspects of a situation (goes with being someone who runs events for a living), so I'd either plan it all or stress over the details.  So hypothetically a surprise party would keep me from stressing.  But now I know!  But I don't know!  So I don't know what to do!

So I guess I just make sure I don't look like a scrub from Tuesday on, right?  Ack!

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Re: Not Such a Surprise...

  • Elle1036Elle1036 member
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    edited December 2011
    Oooh that's exciting!

    I'm glad you don't know all the details, so you'll still be (somewhat) surprised.
  • CASK85CASK85 member
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    edited December 2011
    "I don't want no scrub"

    Yay surprise party!!! Just chill out - you know it'll be fun b/c BF is awesome and knows you well, yes? 
  • marleylikeairmarleylikeair member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_not-such-surprise?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:3584da3f-2d01-44bf-bf1e-828286c5b321Post:d80872bf-a439-4739-a683-04ceaad3a943">Re: Not Such a Surprise...</a>:
    [QUOTE]"I don't want no scrub" Yay surprise party!!! Just chill out - you know it'll be fun b/c BF is awesome and knows you well, yes? 
    Posted by cschiano[/QUOTE]

    <div>A scrub is a guy that can't get no love from me...</div><div>
    </div><div>I couldn't resist. <img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/scripts/tinymce/plugins/emotions/images/smiley-smile.gif" border="0" alt="Smile" title="Smile" /></div>
  • motoLynmotoLyn member
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    edited December 2011
    Your BF knows you well.  Just relax, and make sure you look decent.  Any more pimping and he might know something is up.  Enjoy the suspense!  I love surprise parties.  Practice your surprise face though.  Have fun!
  • Elle1036Elle1036 member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_not-such-surprise?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:3584da3f-2d01-44bf-bf1e-828286c5b321Post:404f2c0b-2621-452f-9a7a-dded02f1821a">Re: Not Such a Surprise...</a>:
    [QUOTE]Your BF knows you well.  Just relax, and make sure you look decent.  Any more<strong> pimping</strong> and he might know something is up.  Enjoy the suspense!  I love surprise parties.  Practice your surprise face though.  Have fun!
    Posted by motoLyn[/QUOTE]

    I'm pretty sure this is supposed to say "primping", but I'm kind of a fan of it as is.
  • heyimbrenheyimbren member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_not-such-surprise?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:3584da3f-2d01-44bf-bf1e-828286c5b321Post:9f15501d-c009-4f3e-a6d8-2ba5cf3cae34">Re: Not Such a Surprise...</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Not Such a Surprise... : I'm pretty sure this is supposed to say "primping", but I'm kind of a fan of it as is.
    Posted by Elle1036[/QUOTE]

    Agreed! Please don't edit it, Lyn!
  • edited December 2011
    How exciting!

    I second Bren... please don't edit Lyn!
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  • motoLynmotoLyn member
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    edited December 2011
    Hahahha damn you "RRRRR"!  Ok ok I won't edit, that's what I get for thinking that proof read my post.  But I'm sure Cate can pull off being a master pimp.  I'm laughing so hard as I type this cause the mental image is hilarious. At least I try to spell check.
  • edited December 2011
     Moto might be onto something, It could be a themed pimp and ho party. = ]
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  • Elle1036Elle1036 member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_not-such-surprise?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:3584da3f-2d01-44bf-bf1e-828286c5b321Post:e8813ec1-55ac-42fc-aa74-f155f4a18caf">Re: Not Such a Surprise...</a>:
    [QUOTE] Moto might be onto something, It could be a themed pimp and ho party. = ]
    Posted by JMM4208[/QUOTE]

    I, for one, would love to see a picture of Cate's macho military boyfriend dressed like a hooker, which would have to be the case if Cate is the pimp.
  • CASK85CASK85 member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_not-such-surprise?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:3584da3f-2d01-44bf-bf1e-828286c5b321Post:1d5a79a6-21fe-43c8-a6c3-ca58ab82d472">Re: Not Such a Surprise...</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Not Such a Surprise... : I, for one, would love to see a picture of Cate's macho military boyfriend dressed like a hooker, which would have to be the case if Cate is the pimp.
    Posted by Elle1036[/QUOTE]
    BWAAHAHAHAH! YES!  
  • leia1979leia1979 member
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    edited December 2011
    Cate that sounds super fun. I've never had a surprise party.

    Just don't start looking around every corner to people jump out at you.  =)
  • calindicalindi member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_not-such-surprise?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:3584da3f-2d01-44bf-bf1e-828286c5b321Post:1d5a79a6-21fe-43c8-a6c3-ca58ab82d472">Re: Not Such a Surprise...</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Not Such a Surprise... : I, for one, would love to see a picture of Cate's macho military boyfriend dressed like a hooker, which would have to be the case if Cate is the pimp.
    Posted by Elle1036[/QUOTE]


    BWAHAHA!  Oh man, that image kills me.

    Thanks guys!  I'm mostly excited, but I'm nervous.  I'm such a control freak, it's killing me!  I guess that's one more reason why he's good for me.  The first birthday we celebrated together, he totally took the planning right out of my hands.  When there was an issue with the waiter, he made two friends distract me so I wouldn't go talk to the manager to solve it. But at least then I knew about everything - not knowing is a strange, weird new experience!

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  • Wrkn925Wrkn925 member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_not-such-surprise?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:3584da3f-2d01-44bf-bf1e-828286c5b321Post:3d7685cb-b36f-46f4-b922-695ff1f8dd79">Re: Not Such a Surprise...</a>:
    [QUOTE]Hahahha damn you "<strong>RRRRR</strong>"!  Ok ok I won't edit, that's what I get for thinking that proof read my post.  But I'm sure Cate can pull off being a master pimp.  I'm laughing so hard as I type this cause the mental image is hilarious. At least I try to spell check.
    Posted by motoLyn[/QUOTE]

    If it's a costume party, Lyn is a pirate.
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  • edited December 2011
    Just look cute and make your boobs look big.
  • Hazel_BHazel_B member
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    edited December 2011
    That sounds like so much fun Cate! Whatever he comes up with, I'm sure you'll have an amazing time.
  • edited December 2011
    hahaha!  i love this thread.  i want pics of cate pimpin'!!

    pics or it didn't happen. ;)
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