So Andrew is worried that his parents might "perceive him as being lazy."
Then maybe he should stop playing civilization and start looking for a job, hm?
He says he's going to Denver to speak with the people he interviewed with last month at 1...so that will at least be good. But what about the 6 hours he wasted on the computer dominating a fake China (or whatever?)
I'll talk to him in a couple days about this if it doesn't get better. He specifically asked me to "let him do it on his own..." before we moved. So we'll see...
I love Andrew so so much, but he's kinda just fallen into all of his jobs. He's never had to find a job. It's hard work. Awful, sad, deflating, hard, hard work...
So back to loving Andrew- I really, really do...but this will be an interesting time for our relationship. I can't be with someone who isn't going to work his arse off to support my future family. I've always been upfront with this, so it won't be a big surprise and I don't think it's unfair to ask.
I've already updated my resume- why can't he update his three page (!!!) resume?
Oh- and you may be thinking, "but Deanna...come on...his mom has cancer. He's supporting her and helping her around the house right now." Nope- that's not happening either.
End of Cranky Rant.
