Some of you may remember the problems I am having with my Mother. This past Wednesday was the last time I've talked to her. We were chit-chatting and I asked when she was going to be off next and she replied the next day but I'm going to go to the deer woods to go hunting (which is something she never ever does, she won't shoot anything.) I replied, "Oh I thought that maybe we could spend some time together" well she said that she wanted to go at least once, so I said that It seems like she could go another time when I wasn't down from Jersey, she said nothing and said she had to go take a shower and go to bed. This is the last I've heard from her until a text today.
Now, here is the conversation..mom is in red, I am in blue..
'what are you doing" I didnt respond since I was at the dentist
"well I guess you aren't going to talk to me now, I love you"
"Oh?! You're ready to talk to me now? After 5 days? And I'm supposed to just feel like talking to u after u obviously put me on the back burner. I'm obviously not that important to you anymore and I get that. I love you, but you're hurting me. I'm only down here a short period of time. And u can't sacrifice a little time from him for me. So when u decide u actually want to work on our relationship let me know."
So was I too harsh in my reply? She hasn't replied back at all and this was a couple of hours ago. I am trying sooo hard to save my relationship with her, and have been so nice and patient. Ugh, I just really don't know what to do anymore. Thanks for "listening"