I currently live in Hawaii with my fiance. All of our family members live in Chicago. We want to have a intimate wedding with immediate family members (25 guests) only in Hawaii on Jan 2013 and plan to have a church wedding and casual reception in Chicago with the rest of our family and friends (aiming for 150 guests-- we have a huge family!) on October 2013. I'm also not confirmed so i'll have to take the classes before the October wedding.
Has any one every had two weddings and what did you do to make it not exactly feel like two weddings?