so our wedding is 17days away

we have been clashing with song choice. i spent hours after work today researching, from the "walk up" to "cake cutting" i found what i thought was going to be our first dance song, [ originally i was going to agree on a song HE wanted] we went shopping today for groomsmen gifts- and 'THE PERFECT SONG" came on the radio. ( my fh hates country.) but it was by keith urban.

him. and it was pretty much over, when we got home. i looked it up on youtube and played it,
here is how the conversation went
me- do you like this song instead?
him- sure.
me- im serious, i want you to like it to
him- yeah.
me- ok what about this one (and played a song by kenny chesney- you had me at hello-)
him- yeah thats nice too
me- ok which one do you want?
him- i dont care. [ and turns the volume to the tv up]
WHAT THE HELL!! hahah.
what do i do? help help! aparently its not going to matter, nor will he remember. aye yi yi!