If you're engaged did your boyfriend/fiance ask your parents/father for their permission or blessing?
The reason I'm asking...My boyfriend and I are on the younger side (Ill be 21 in August, he just turned 20). & my dad has told me he wants me to finish college before getting married/kids. BUT, my boyfriend will be done with fire academy around this time next year, and we'd like to be planning a wedding by that time. We don't want him putting his life on the line everyday without counting down to a wedding day.
My dad and I aren't super close (I'm by no means a daddy's girl), but he said he is willing to pay for our honeymoon if we do it right (no living together before we get married, my dad is very religious). But I'm afraid he won't give his blessing and won't participate in my future wedding, I want him to walk me down the aisle & I want my father/daughter dance.
My boyfriend has told me that if my dad says no, it will end up as a "With all due respect, sir..." situation. But I'd rather it not come to that...
Any advice, suggestions, or similar situtations?
I know a ton of people are going to tell me to wait a while, but thats something my boyfriend & I aren't comfortable doing, especially with his line of work...