S/O What's your number?

calindi

People who don't have safe sex enfuriate me.  They put themselves and others at risk.  It's stupid, and there's no reason for it.

StarGazingHiker

I voted 1-2...

2 for me... one before the bf. There was a lot of making out with random guys before I met my bf though...

1 for my honey... just me!

SeaTea02

I am paranoid about safe sex. BC, condoms, spermicide, and pull out.... 

can you tell I really dont want a baby right now?

loves2shop4shoes

I'm at 7.  I keep a thorough list including every guy I've ever kissed.  When I was younger, I figured it was a good idea in case I ever contracted the Herp.  Now you know I'm KUI.

sapphirebaby926

DH is 5 for me and I'm 2 for him. I was a little wild in the 7-8 months after breaking up with my college BF and before getting with DH.

GreenPepperBurger

So far I've only been with BF. Potentially flame-worthy statement: We're really open about sex and know that there will be times when the other person will become sexually attracted to someone else. If there was someone I really wanted to have sex with, BF would condone it (as I would for him).

SeaTea02

GPB, you wouldn't be jealous at all??

GreenPepperBurger

Sea - I probably would be at first, but I would try to transcend the jealousy. I would be way more hurt if he did it behind my back, instead of just talking to me about it. I've spoken to him about this one particular guy I am attracted to, and it's actually made us more honest as a couple.

stemms8810

I voted 5-7 with my number being 6 I think.  I had to write them down in chronological order to verify.

PaigeMcC

4.  Oddly enough 3 of 4 had M names and all three turned out to be assholes.  FBD is a D so I think he's safe.

JMM4208

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_whats-number?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:754d8ca2-d5ff-4c49-9cb9-74a7811e1f8fPost:3b3b031c-362f-4486-97a5-2b38c4cfbc80">Re: S/O What's your number?</a>:
[QUOTE]I am paranoid about safe sex. BC, condoms, spermicide, and pull out....  can you tell I really dont want a baby right now?
Posted by SeaTea02[/QUOTE]

Amen to that! I have 3 bed post knotches (including BF), he has 2 total.

bettyshaw

10 - and oddly enough, 4 with one name and 2 with another. But I think I have some variety as well - different nationalities/religions/ages. Nothing too crazy. BF and I actually lost it to each other back in high school, but went our separate ways for a few years.

15Step

I'm 29 years old and on the high end of this poll.  I lived a wild, free, very interesting life from the age of 17 to 23, then again from 25 to 27.  That being said, I have always been VERY attentive to my health and well being, and glad to say that all is and has been well. 

I have no idea what my dude's number is, and I dont really want to know.  I know he's had a three some, but so have I... and that's as much as we know about each other, aside from clean bills of health.  I would assume he's in the teens, maybe 20s..  I dont think we'll ever have this discussion, and I'm totally fine with that... in fact, I'd prefer it that way  

redheadtmk

5 of my 7 all started with the letter J. at least they were different races, different parts of the country, different ages...wide age range.   hopefully BF will be the last.

mana8503

9 for me. 

Hazel_B

I am at the 5-7. My list is pretty diverse, BF is the first english speaking, North American born guy I've been with. The rest is a European, Arab and French Canadian mix.

As for BF, I don't know his exact number and he doesn't know mine. We know eachother has had numerous past partners but that is it. Considering I'm in my late 20s and he is in his mid 30s, I think I'd be more concerned if that wasn't the case. I think he was pretty wild when he was younger too. Still, even if he had one partner a year and started when he was 18, which I think seems conservative based on some of my male friends, he'd be well into the teens.

Wrkn925

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_whats-number?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:754d8ca2-d5ff-4c49-9cb9-74a7811e1f8fPost:84f7fe81-9b7c-43a2-843d-af99fe0c3e8e">Re: S/O What's your number?</a>:
[QUOTE]4.  Oddly enough 3 of 4 had M names and all three turned out to be assholes.  FBD is a D so I think he's safe.
Posted by PaigeMcC[/QUOTE]

3 of mine had the same first name, oddly, BFs first name.

HaneyMobile

My number is 8, but my SO of 3 years is 1 (though when my gyno asked me about my sexual partner's history, and I told her, she acted like I was some dumb girl whose SO was lying about being a virgin when we started dating. Bitch). I'm not ashamed by my number even a little bit. I had fun in college  but my days of being able to have fun, non-emotional, sex are by the by now. 

Just for the record, I like it this way MUCH better. 

HaneyMobile

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: S/O What's your number? : 3 of mine had the same first name, oddly, BFs first name.
Posted by Wrkn925[/QUOTE]

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