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Stina51286

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_tucked-away-in-the-closet?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:8479f415-cebe-4ed5-9ff3-270addfb59c7Post:e63be5e2-3a7e-4aef-9c66-4830d1d1c860">Re: Tucked away in the closet!</a>:
[QUOTE]I detect a hint of snark in the previous post @LilTexas. Age and circumstance should not matter, nor is it your business. They did the MOST adult thing, and realized they needed to wait- no harm done. And even if you believe it was a mistake that time around and this one, that is for THEM to figure out, not for you to shove your opinions down the poor girl's throat. <strong>This board is for inter-bridal emotional support, and your response hardly sounds supportive, to say the least.</strong> Anyway @Candie, marriage is a life-altering committment, whether you're 21 or 51. Don't let anyone hold your age over your head. You may be one of the lucky few to have found "the one" early in life. None of us have any way of knowing that, and have no right to take away from your moment. With that said, CONGRATS! My fiance and I are pretty young as well, and did the same thing. We talked about marriage for months before deciding it was the right thing for us, and after deciding that it is, he took me to pick out my engagement ring. Now I'm not too traditional, but my family is... So if anyone asks- he picked it! :P *Edit: I showed him ring styles I liked, but I fell in LOVE with one in particular. Needless to say he went back for it, and suprised the heck out of me with his sneaky beach proposal in the sand. I tried to snoop around and be nosy, and drop hints about what I wanted, but he wasn't having it. Let him do things in his own way, in his own time.
Posted by ShoreThing14[/QUOTE]

I am a little late to the thread, but thanks for the hour of on again off again reading to help the time fly by, but PP, the bolded part, THIS here board is the NOT ENGAGED YET board, meaning when people started here, most were not engaged yet and NOT looking for "inter-bridal emotional support" as you may say it. Der!

FreeSpirit666

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_tucked-away-in-the-closet?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:8479f415-cebe-4ed5-9ff3-270addfb59c7Post:14843047-0cb0-4eac-be84-c258a0ff8b60">Re: Tucked away in the closet!</a>:
[QUOTE]I understand her opinion is valid, and likely based on what she believes is best for the situation. I didn't say I disagreed, or that she didn't have a right to said opinion. I cautioned the OP to not let it get to her just because of her age. As a fellow young bride, I can sympathize with people frowning on my decision. Unbeknownst to most passersby, I make more than the average person my age, and have been through plenty with my FH, but more importantly have my own identity without him. Also, my "ONE other post" is in no way indicative of my all-around effort to support those here on TK. My "ONE other post" is the result of creating a new account due to dealings with a fraudulent vendor. I'm not new here sweetheart, I'm BACK. Sit down and take a seat.
Posted by ShoreThing14[/QUOTE]

BRAVO!!!!! Kudos to you!!!!!

FreeSpirit666

Also, love the way the thread just veered so far off course, you ladies make for a fun read in the morning before I start work LMAO!!!

LilTexasGal

Aww OP DD.