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I am back....in a way

So last time I was around I was not even sure how long my relationship would be lasting with the BF. He and I have had a lot of talks and we even took a week where we did not so much break up, I just told him he should take a week where I am not around and we do not talk. He had some time to think about how much I make him happy and now realizes I am the best thing since sliced bread. He is going to see someone to work through some of his baggage in addition to finding the right med for him (I just may too if I can get my mom to shut off about how it is just going to cause more problems for me mentally)

So here I am, for now mostly lurking.

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    SKP82SKP82 member
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    edited December 2011
    Glad you're back, Molly, and that you and the BF are working through your stuff!

    The quote in your siggy got messed up.  You have to fix it because I always thought it was funny!
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    lunarsongbirdlunarsongbird member
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    edited December 2011
    Welcome Back!

    I'm sooo glad to hear that he is willing to get some help and some extra assistance with the right meds. What a difference it can make!!

    So your mum...she has the perfect relationship, huh? Wow...she's lucky.

    (This always gets my mom to quiet down. I know that she probably just wants the best for you...but in this regard-you are an adult and you make your own decisions. On this level- you are both peers- adult women in adult relationships)
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    becunning2becunning2 member
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    edited December 2011
    Glad you're back and you and your BF have been making progress.

    Random aside: I <3 sliced bread.  But I love tearing off chunks of fresh baked bread too. :)
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    Ollie08Ollie08 member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_am-backin-way?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:90d792fe-bd99-4455-acc5-f17c63c5db96Post:19e27f2b-dfb1-4b24-bfb5-f4825b274c0b">I am back....in a way</a>:
    [QUOTE]He is going to see someone to work through some of his baggage in addition to finding the right med for him (<strong>I just may too if I can get my mom to shut off about how it is just going to cause more problems for me mentall</strong>y) So here I am, for now mostly lurking.
    Posted by meamolly[/QUOTE]
    Welcome back! I think you were posting when I first started lurking a few months ago. Are you sure we're not long lost sisters? My mom likes to tell me how I'm screwed up mentally all the time.

    On another note, glad things are getting better for the two of you.

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    cu97tigercu97tiger member
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    edited December 2011
    Welcome back Molly! I'm glad you and your BF are making positive forward progress. And don't let your mother discourage you from going to talk to someone. For one thing, you don't need to tell her everything, so if you decide to start taking medication, it probably isn't her business (but tell your BF and one of your friends in case you have some kind of a bad reaction to it!).
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    ravenrayravenray member
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    edited December 2011
    I was thinking about you the other day and wondering how you were doing.  Glad to know that you guys are working through things.  It is never bad to get help.  Do it!
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    Elle1036Elle1036 member
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    edited December 2011
    *waves*

    Hi Molly!
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    alanna91alanna91 member
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    edited December 2011
    Welcome back!! I saw your picture on the Knot Engaged Yet a couple weeks ago and wondered where you had gone.
    Glad things are going better for you two :)
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    edited December 2011
    Yay, I am glad you are back! I missed having you around (even though I was absent a bit myself).  I am so glad for you that you and BF are in a better situation.  Sometimes you just need meds.  I was on anxiety medication while finishing up my degree and it worked wonders.  If you want to talk about anything, PM me.
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    edited December 2011
    Hi!  I'm glad you're back too!  I've missed you around here.
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    edited December 2011
    yay glad you are back and that you guys are working on your relationship

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    edited December 2011
    Hiiii! Welcome back! I was wondering where you had disappeared to-- glad you're semi-back. :)
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