I just recieved a friend request from a girl who is dating my ex-bf. He and I dated over 8 years ago. He cheated on me and so I dumped him and for like 3 months after he harassed me and even over a year after we broke up he told his friend that we had gotten back together. He was a bit off then and might still be now. Well, his current gf friend requested me and when I messeged her to see her response to how we new each other, she said we didnt, so i asked her if it was because she is dating my ex, and she admitted it was partially that. She then asked me how long I'd been with my fiance and I told her and she informed me that that's what my ex thought....a bit disconcerting. I've already told her that it was weird that she wanted to be friends with me, so i wouldnt be friends with her.
So what I need opinion on is if I'm being paranoid (and maybe a tad bit conceited) in thinking that it was my ex wanting her to friend me bc he knew i never would friend him? Does anyone else find it odd that my ex's new gf wanted to be my friend? If it continues, should I just ignore it or message him to stop it?