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Yes I am one of them!

I am one of the no-ring, day dreaming, time frame sorting, fiance' to be.  LOL  I just had to get that one out there.  I am on here just to chit chat and eventually plan a wedding.  Yes, the ring is coming, we both know, but in no way, shape or form are we "planning" our wedding.  Just enjoying how our relationship is progressing...the only plans I am making are my "buy a house plan" for this spring.  But it is nice to know it is coming one day. 

So there ya go.  No ring yet...but no rush and no worries. 

But we have picked out a date we like....but that's it Smile  OHH and he knows how he is going to propose and I am hoping it does not involve work...if he proposes to me on that  God forsaken airplane I will say yes....but only after a LONG and uncomfortable pause lol
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Re: Yes I am one of them!

  • AudgiePodgeAudgiePodge member
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    edited December 2011
    So why the ticker?
    I'm not good at feelings.

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    Why not?  It is the date we are looking at.  Its changable and free.  *shrug*

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  • AudgiePodgeAudgiePodge member
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    edited December 2011
    I like free things. Well, most free things.
    I'm not good at feelings.

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  • tafft1tafft1 member
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    edited December 2011
    If there really is no rush you wouldn't feel the need to put up a ticker. Stick to one thing or another but you can't have it both ways.
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  • edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_yes-am-one-of?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:99c998ec-8128-4606-a317-326348ec9b38Post:8105f5ab-69f0-4030-a487-1f8c42791fe4">Re: Yes I am one of them!</a>:
    [QUOTE]If there really is no rush you wouldn't feel the need to put up a ticker. Stick to one thing or another but you can't have it both ways.
    Posted by tafft1[/QUOTE]

    LOL This ticker really annoys y'all...now I am going to leave it to bug you.  <img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/scripts/tinymce/plugins/emotions/images/smiley-smile.gif" border="0" alt="Smile" title="Smile" />
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  • tafft1tafft1 member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_yes-am-one-of?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:99c998ec-8128-4606-a317-326348ec9b38Post:e60bf05c-2c12-4806-8ac3-30fcd47bbf39">Re: Yes I am one of them!</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Yes I am one of them! : LOL This ticker really annoys y'all...now I am going to leave it to bug you. 
    Posted by cruisebunny7[/QUOTE]

    True colors and lack of maturity show through..have fun with that.
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  • motoLynmotoLyn member
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    edited December 2011
    Tafft she's 25.  Shows you the extent of her matuarity huh?  Anyways you're off to a fun honeymoon!  Enjoy and I hope you and the Hubby have a fantastic time!
  • edited December 2011
    I thought you might be sane/normal. Nope, wrong again.

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  • coastiegrl25coastiegrl25 member
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    edited December 2011
    I think she is just showing her sense of humor...not being immature. The comment about leaving it up to bug ppl is, but I dont see why it's annoying anyway. It is very changeable. It's not a ticker showing that she has her venue deposit down, and a wedding dress bought. 
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  • edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_yes-am-one-of?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:99c998ec-8128-4606-a317-326348ec9b38Post:f5b3f09f-b489-41d0-b24e-a42117898061">Re: Yes I am one of them!</a>:
    [QUOTE]I think she is just showing her sense of humor...not being immature. The comment about leaving it up to bug ppl is, but I dont see why it's annoying anyway. It is very changeable. It's not a ticker showing that she has her venue deposit down, and a wedding dress bought. 
    Posted by coastiegrl25[/QUOTE]


    Amen!!  I am sarcastic almost to a fault.  Sarcasm can come across awkwardly sometimes.  I don't mean any harm.  And I am not crazy...well...maybe a little.  Working with the public this long wears on anyone.  lol
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  • Elle1036Elle1036 member
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    edited December 2011
    I agree with Coastie.  Tafft and Moto, you may be overreacting just a smidge.
  • edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_yes-am-one-of?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:99c998ec-8128-4606-a317-326348ec9b38Post:e60bf05c-2c12-4806-8ac3-30fcd47bbf39">Re: Yes I am one of them!</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Yes I am one of them! : LOL This ticker really annoys y'all...now I am going to leave it to bug you. 
    Posted by cruisebunny7[/QUOTE]

    I like you!  You have my sense of humor! I'm in the same boat as you... BF & I know we're getting married, we have a tentative date but we're just trying to enjoy life and work towards moving in together...

    Although, the anticipation is starting to get the best of me more recently because I know that his original plan was to propose when we go to Baltimore next month... but I'm ignoring it as much as possible! <img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/scripts/tinymce/plugins/emotions/images/smiley-laughing.gif" border="0" alt="Laughing" title="Laughing" />
  • edited December 2011
    Sorry if i misinterpreted what you were trying to say. It gets lost on the internet. I will reserve my judgement on your sanity for a later date.

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  • edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_yes-am-one-of?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:99c998ec-8128-4606-a317-326348ec9b38Post:44d70252-52d4-4c81-b064-4b27d4a61090">Re: Yes I am one of them!</a>:
    [QUOTE]Sorry if i misinterpreted what you were trying to say. It gets lost on the internet. I will reserve my judgement on your sanity for a later date.
    Posted by SeaTea02[/QUOTE]

    Thanks Sea :)  I promise my sanity is slim...but there!!! 
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  • bethsmilesbethsmiles member
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    edited December 2011
    I think you seem normal for the most part. We will see if you do turn out to be crazy (but I think on the inside most of us are crazy lol). So tell us more about you.

    How old are you? How old is your BF? How long have you been together? What do each of you do for a living?


  • stemms8810stemms8810 member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_yes-am-one-of?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:99c998ec-8128-4606-a317-326348ec9b38Post:780749fc-d5cc-42ca-94f1-7e039084eb61">Re: Yes I am one of them!</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Yes I am one of them! : Amen!!  I am sarcastic almost to a fault.  Sarcasm can come across awkwardly sometimes.  I don't mean any harm.  And I am not crazy...well...maybe a little.  Working with the public this long wears on anyone.  lol
    Posted by cruisebunny7[/QUOTE]

    I think I get your sense of humor for sure.  I am the same way and can be sarcastic as well, but like you, never mean it to be hurtful <img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/scripts/tinymce/plugins/emotions/images/smiley-smile.gif" border="0" alt="Smile" title="Smile" />  I think we can all be a little crazy sometimes too!  Totally normal.
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  • edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_yes-am-one-of?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:99c998ec-8128-4606-a317-326348ec9b38Post:52b83dd1-687a-4249-84a1-9d08698d1610">Re: Yes I am one of them!</a>:
    [QUOTE]I think you seem normal for the most part. We will see if you do turn out to be crazy (but I think on the inside most of us are crazy lol). So tell us more about you. How old are you? How old is your BF? How long have you been together? What do each of you do for a living?
    Posted by bethsmiles[/QUOTE]

    Well...I am 25 almost 26, my BF is 27 almost 28.  We have been together less than a year (6 almost 7 months) and we are both flight attendants. 
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  • edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_yes-am-one-of?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:99c998ec-8128-4606-a317-326348ec9b38Post:2c128826-e578-4c0e-9a00-d2b7140ef5c8">Re: Yes I am one of them!</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Yes I am one of them! : Well...I am 25 almost 26, my BF is 27 almost 28.  We have been together less than a year (6 almost 7 months) and <strong>we are both flight attendants</strong>. 
    Posted by cruisebunny7[/QUOTE]

    I totally guessed this!! because you said if he proposes on the plane you'll say yes but only after an uncomfortable pause! lol
  • edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_yes-am-one-of?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:99c998ec-8128-4606-a317-326348ec9b38Post:44d70252-52d4-4c81-b064-4b27d4a61090">Re: Yes I am one of them!</a>:
    [QUOTE]Sorry if i misinterpreted what you were trying to say. It gets lost on the internet. I will reserve my judgement on your sanity for a later date.
    Posted by SeaTea02[/QUOTE]

    <div>Don't you hate it when that happens?</div>
  • heyimbrenheyimbren member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_yes-am-one-of?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:99c998ec-8128-4606-a317-326348ec9b38Post:0f5def37-e6d7-4700-9423-b80685cf3672">Re: Yes I am one of them!</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Yes I am one of them! : Don't you hate it when that happens?
    Posted by loves2shop4shoes[/QUOTE]

    I <3 you and SeaTea. Consider this my proclamation of love.
  • edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_yes-am-one-of?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:99c998ec-8128-4606-a317-326348ec9b38Post:83d66645-36cd-4f31-9232-0f60cc61b94c">Re: Yes I am one of them!</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Yes I am one of them! : I <3 you and SeaTea. Consider this my proclamation of love.
    Posted by heyimbren[/QUOTE]

    <div>Awwww...shucks.  <img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/scripts/tinymce/plugins/emotions/images/smiley-embarassed.gif" border="0" alt="Embarassed" title="Embarassed" /> <3</div>
  • edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_yes-am-one-of?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:99c998ec-8128-4606-a317-326348ec9b38Post:83d66645-36cd-4f31-9232-0f60cc61b94c">Re: Yes I am one of them!</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Yes I am one of them! : I <3 you and SeaTea. Consider this my proclamation of love.
    Posted by heyimbren[/QUOTE]


    aww <3 you too!! <img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/scripts/tinymce/plugins/emotions/images/smiley-laughing.gif" border="0" alt="Laughing" title="Laughing" />

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  • Wrkn925Wrkn925 member
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    edited December 2011
    You have to use the sarcasm font.

    Although, I can't tell you how to do that, because no on has taught me.  Tone gets lost here sometimes, thanks for clarifying.

    BF and I are kind of similar.  Welcome.
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  • loopy82loopy82 member
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    edited December 2011
    Welcome! I picked up on the sarcasm right away. IRL I would like say the same thing. I attribute it to having a younger brother - do things that will purposely annoy another person.
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  • Tula214Tula214 member
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    edited December 2011
    Ehhh I agree that it's just a ticker. It's hard to read humor.

    You don't need a ring to be engaged, though. If you're going to, or are already, living together, why wait?
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  • edited December 2011
    Thanks y'all!!!  I am so glad to be a part of the community Smile
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  • Hazel_BHazel_B member
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    edited December 2011
    Welcome!

    I picked up on your sense of humour as well. However, I do understand where the others were coming from in regards to the ticker. I think it is the general way of encouraging people around here to not get too far ahead of themselves plus treating people in a similar way that are NEY. I can see someone BSC arguing as to why your ticker is okay and there's isn't.

    Meh, doesn't bother me. Welcome, again!
  • edited December 2011
    I can understand why some people won't pick up on your (cruisebunny7) humor at first, but that's because some people really plan on how SO will propose and plan everything even when its clearly not meant to happen. That's why I loved cruisebunny7 humor :-)
  • edited December 2011
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