I need some advice on my situation. My mom left my dad when I was 5 months old. When I was 2 she met and married Kevin. During the time before they met my dad was not a part of my life for the most part. After Kevin married my mom he adopted me. My dad gave me away willingly. Kevin raised me as his daughter. When I was 18 I met my dad for the first time and we now have a close relationship. I am 28 now. 6 years ago my dad told me when the time came Kevin should walk me down the aisle. I completely agree with this. Now that I am getting married he has changed his mind and wants to walk me down the aisle with Kevin. I told him that I wanted Kevin to walk me down the aisle and have my dad at the end so they could both give me away. He has refused to do this. Saying he had taken "a back seat" long enough. I feel as though he made this choice a long time ago and I am upset that he is making me seem like the bad guy. He made the choice to give me away and though he regrets it, it does not change what happened. Am I being irrational? I know we are close now but he was not my father growing up. Please help shed some light on this for me!
Much Thanks
Lost Bride