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E-ring dramas!

My partner and I got engaged on the 26th June. We took the ring in on the monday (back to Wallace Bishop) to see if they had one in my size. They said their computers were down and when they were up they would check. Otherwise we woud have to get it resized. They said they would call and let us know if they couldnt find one. We actually had a nother jeweller in mind to get in resized (recommended by a friend) Wallace Bishop quoted 7 days and $100 to resize. We didnt hear from them so a few days later we went in and they said they had already sent it off to be resized, and that it was actually going to cost $125. In the end it took two weeks for them to resize it. Because they had ro resize it so much smaller one of the stones fell out and therefore it took longer. No problems. About a day after I picked up the ring I noticed a flaw in one of the side stones that wasnt there originally. It stood out like dogs balls to me so how someone with a jewellers eye missed it is beyond me. The lady is very apologetic and promises it will be back in a week. That was thursday just gone. My partner rings on friday to ask whats going on. They tell him its not due back until the 6th now because the work needed was more extensive than they thought. So by the time i get the ring back we wouldve been engaged for 6 weeks, and I wouldve worn it for 3 days!! I can udertsand the resizing issues but the faulty diamond is THEIR fault. As mad as a cut snake I rang WALLACE BISHOP . . which promptly turned into tears. Pathetic I know. A few friends have suggested I ask them for compo in the form of matching earrings or something. I am devastated, and it feels like something dodgey is going on (diamond swapping?) It doesnt even feel like I am engaged at the moment. I have sent off a length email to Wallace Bishop head office detailing everything, and am waiting for a reply. What are your thoughts? Thanks :o)

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    run21run21 member
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    edited December 2011
    Six weeks out of a lifetime? You seem to be a little over-excited about this. Stuff happens. It sucks, no doubt. But you're engaged. Buy a cocktail ring to wear in the meantime if it will make you feel better. I would probably ask them to comp the sizing because they damaged the ring and inconvenienced you because I am a cheapskate and don't care to pay for bad service (i.e. damage caused by the merchant) but otherwise...
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    katanne9katanne9 member
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    edited December 2011
    If you are concerned about diamond switching, you should take the precautionary steps. Unfortunately, it seems like you may be too far into the situation. My FI actually had the center stone changed, and he recorded all his phone calls and conversations with the jeweler. He also had it appraised before and after by several independent appraisers. If you've already had the stone changed there isn't much you can do.


    If you're really concerned, I would talk to a manager and tell them you're going to report them to the Better Business Bureau, although honestly, the only info you can actually back up isn't that big of a deal - just very annoying.


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    edited December 2011
    I would ask them for some kind of compensation, and call a manager or someone high up to complain.

    But honestly, you should be happy right now. You ARE engaged. It's wonderful! With or without the ring!

    However, I can understand you being upset. Believe me, there will be a few more bumps in the road to a wedding. This is good practice on how to deal with this kind of thing.
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    marinegal75marinegal75 member
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    edited December 2011

    The POINT I am actutally making, is that I am concerned that a diamond was replaced in the resizing process. And one with a fault that stood out to me like a sore thumb . . how could a so called professional not see it?! It seems a bit shady to me. I could care less if the ring takes 6 weeks to come back . .as long as its the same ring that my partner puchased.


    Google Wallace Bishop and you will see a PLETHORA of complaints about their dodgey repair work.

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    hetshuphetshup member
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    edited December 2011
    I had a ring with a tension setting that took forever to fix. I took it back many many times to have more metal added etc etc. It's fine now. 

    When your FI bought the ring he should have gotten a GIA cert to show the price of the diamond. Once you get the ring back take it to an independent jewelry and have them appraise it. Insurance should cover it, and then they will sue the jeweler. 

    If you didn't do those things.... I believe you may be SOL. Sorry, out of luck. 
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    edited December 2011
    GIA certificates don't indicate the price of the ring/stone. Not all diamonds have a GIA certiicate. If the diamond did, the diamond would be inscribed with the GIA certificate number which would match the GIA certificate. That way the stone can always be identified.

    Of course it has taken far to long for the resizing and the store should be fully liable for any damage to the setting. If the setting was really damaged in resizing, you should ask for a new setting in your correct size. It is better to have the right size to begin with than get a ring resized.

    No they will not give you earrings for the delay.

    You have to investigate this issue about the stone you claim looks different. What looks different to you? Get a loupe and look at it and find out what is wrong with it. Did you get any certificates with this ring?
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    run21run21 member
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    edited December 2011
    I guess we missed your POINT, since your FOCUS seemed to be "by the time i get the ring back we wouldve been engaged for 6 weeks, and I wouldve worn it for 3 days!!'

    Did you GOOGLE them and see the PLETHORA of complaints before you bought the ring or took it for repairs?

    Anyway, hetshup and jeana gave good advice. Good LUCK.
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_e-ring-dramas?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:ae7af353-ebbd-47b7-ab24-f2a2d0683b91Post:32f53e2a-0367-4833-8e0d-2eecb1de8478">Re: E-ring dramas!</a>:
    [QUOTE]I guess we missed your POINT, since your FOCUS seemed to be "by the time i get the ring back we wouldve been engaged for 6 weeks, and I wouldve worn it for 3 days!!' <strong>Did you GOOGLE them and see the PLETHORA of complaints before you bought the ring or took it for repairs?</strong> Anyway, hetshup and jeana gave good advice. Good LUCK.
    Posted by run21[/QUOTE]

    This.

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    meamollymeamolly member
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    edited December 2011
    She didnt even want them to resize it. She had someone else in mind. The only reason she had it at the shop is because they were to call her back and tell her if they had it in her size instead of getting it sized. From what i gathered she didnt even give permission to have it resized.
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_e-ring-dramas?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:ae7af353-ebbd-47b7-ab24-f2a2d0683b91Post:141e22a0-1bbb-498c-88fe-2c262ed7ba1a">Re: E-ring dramas!</a>:
    [QUOTE]She didnt even want them to resize it. She had someone else in mind. The only reason she had it at the shop is because they were to call her back and tell her if they had it in her size instead of getting it sized. From what i gathered she didnt even give permission to have it resized.
    Posted by meamolly[/QUOTE]

    Why the hell would anyone leave a piece of jewelry at a store without specific instructions on the work to be done?  What was the point of her leaving her ring there to begin with? 

    I call BS or a lack of common sense.  Either way, quit yer bitchin' and stop vendor bashing.  Make a comment on yelp or weddingwire.  This is not the place.  Your entire post reeks of whining because you didn't have your sparkly on your hand.  <a href="#" title="Click to view a larger photo" onclick="return gSiteLife.LoadForumPage('ForumImage', 'plckPhotoId', '0fc27c40-89c6-4ca4-98d4-f36df6d5b2af', 'plckRedirectUrl', gSiteLife.EscapeValue(window.location.href));"> <img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/images/store/15/8/0fc27c40-89c6-4ca4-98d4-f36df6d5b2af.medium.gif" alt="" /></a>
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    run21run21 member
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    edited December 2011
    But Mutley... That's not her POINT. Can't you READ?   :)
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    marinegal75marinegal75 member
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    edited December 2011

    OK, let me start by saying that I dont think its the end of the world that it will be six weeks. Sure Im a little dissapointed but whatever. If I didnt have my concerns about the jewellry repairs six weeks woudnt both me.

    I hadnt planned on taking it there to get resized, they did that off their own bat, and the ring came back faulty so the onus was on them to repair it.


    Im not "vendor bashing". I am merely stating what happened and my concerns. Is that not allowed?


    And Im sorry about the words in capital letters. I didnt realise there was a bold button. You see, Im not one to spend my life on the internet commenting in forums to the total of a few thousand!

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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_e-ring-dramas?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:ae7af353-ebbd-47b7-ab24-f2a2d0683b91Post:067713d3-c4ba-4e32-a9bd-e2fb5a3af78e">Re: E-ring dramas!</a>:
    [QUOTE]OK, let me start by saying that I dont think its the end of the world that it will be six weeks. Sure Im a little dissapointed but whatever. If I didnt have my concerns about the jewellry repairs six weeks woudnt both me.

    I hadnt planned on taking it there to get resized, they did that off their own bat, and the ring came back faulty so the onus was on them to repair it.

    <strong>Say what?  They took a bat to your ring.  I would definitely sue them.  </strong>

    Im not "vendor bashing". I am merely stating what happened and my concerns. Is that not allowed?

    <strong>What you did IS vendor bashing.  You are not allowed to refer to a specific vendor.  If you had left out the vendors name or not repeated it in capital letters multiple times, it would be a different post.  </strong>

    And Im sorry about the words in capital letters. I didnt realise there was a bold button. You see, Im not one to spend my life on the internet commenting in forums to the total of a few thousand!

    <strong>Oh, burrrrn.  Less than 10 posts a day definitely cuts into my life.  </strong>
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    While you are <em>realising</em> things, there is a spellchecker button at the bottom of your reply box. 
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    edited December 2011
    ::pulls up a lawn chair and pops some popcorn::

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    edited December 2011
    Oceana Chick,
    May I suggest:


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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_e-ring-dramas?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:ae7af353-ebbd-47b7-ab24-f2a2d0683b91Post:a9a50742-adc7-4ad6-9f67-259b747b5362">Re: E-ring dramas!</a>:
    [QUOTE]Oceana Chick, May I suggest:
    Posted by **Mutley**[/QUOTE]

    Oooooooh, I love Adirondack chairs. ::swoon::

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    edited December 2011
    I haz a slight obsession.  I love our cheap ones from Home Depot.  I dream of having real ones.  One day we will be adirondack millionaires. 
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    edited December 2011

    from my oh-so-very-favorite Knock Off Wood



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    edited December 2011
    *facepalm*
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    marinegal75marinegal75 member
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    edited December 2011
    Thanks everyone for your advice. I have emailed the jeweller so we'll wait and see what kind of response we get. We would just be happy if they refunded the cost to get it resized.

    Love the lawn chairs. We bought 2 a few weeks ago. Not as nice as colourful as those though, and too cold to use at the moment anyway. Boo!

    Oh look . . there's that pesky spell check button . . .
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    run21run21 member
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    edited December 2011
    Bipolar much?

    WTF. (Caps intentional)
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_e-ring-dramas?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:ae7af353-ebbd-47b7-ab24-f2a2d0683b91Post:88535007-a665-4ad0-84a4-7e4d9407691a">Re: E-ring dramas!</a>:
    [QUOTE]from my oh-so-very-favorite Knock Off Wood
    Posted by **Mutley**[/QUOTE]

    Do those Adirondack chairs have ottomans?!
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    hetshuphetshup member
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    edited December 2011
    Those are foot stools button
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_e-ring-dramas?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:ae7af353-ebbd-47b7-ab24-f2a2d0683b91Post:35d81ba7-b86c-48d4-a6de-9d70fb8a7dff">Re: E-ring dramas!</a>:
    [QUOTE]Those are foot stools button
    Posted by hetshup[/QUOTE]

    Ah yes, it seems my coffee hasn't kicked in yet.
    But if I even end up with one of those you know I'm attaching wheels to it.
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