I set my wedding date once now but decided to just wait until my fiance decided he wanted to have the wedding in Michigan where I'm from because my family (VIP people I need in my wedding, brother and sister in law, niece and nephews) can't afford to make it all the way to Nebraska (2 adults, 4 children). It would be much easier for us to travel there (plus I want to get married in Michigan) After some talking I realized that it wasn't fair that all of his family had to travel and we decided on a neutral place (not a specific place yet), but now we are moving to Houston, so it will be even FURTHER away from my family. I feel like I am literally not planning my wedding anymore because I don't see how my family can make it there, and I just can't get married without those people there, I'll be disapointed and I know they will be equally disapointed. What should I do? Any advice on an affordable way to get them to Houston area? Should I not put my wedding on hold over this?